Post Date April, 15 2023
As the mainstream figure of modern marriage, the post-80s group not only has a high marriage rate, but also has the highest divorce demography. Young couples in love always have a strong affection and a happy relationship. But when living together after marriage, they do not understand tolerance and tolerance, often leading to conflicts and disputes due to small issues, even leading to divorce. So, as couples born in the 1980s, what are the reasons that led them to divorce? Now, let's take a look at the factors that led to their divorce.
1. Domestic disputes
Domestic disputes are the main problem faced by young couples born in the 1980s and are also the most prone to conflicts. Nowadays, most young men and women are only children who are not accustomed to household chores. The reason why many young couples have disputes is actually arguing about who should cook and who should wash the dishes. It's a bit of a fuss! But everyone believes that this matter should be done by the other party, but they have never viewed the problem from an objective perspective. In fact, household chores should be shared by both parties, and couples should respect and understand each other in order to create a harmonious and happy family life. So, we should avoid this problem and do household chores together. Whoever does more and who does less should not worry too much.
2. Parental intervention
The intervention of parents, although not directly leading to divorce, is an indirect factor. Some newlyweds, once they feel a bit wronged, like to accuse their parents of the other party's wrongdoing. And many parents, regardless of who is right or wrong, blindly protect their children and criticize each other, leading to conflicts between the two individuals and even becoming conflicts between two families. For young couples, they should learn to turn big things into small ones, and not make small things bigger. Moreover, as you have already married, you should learn to solve some things on your own, rather than letting your parents come forward to solve them. Not only does it make the elderly worry, but it also deepens the conflicts between both sides.
3. Property disputes
Whether it's couples born in the 1980s or others, conflicts may arise due to this issue, leading to divorce. So, for couples born in the 1980s, there will also be conflicts over property and money issues. For example, the woman dislikes the man for making too little money, while the man dislikes the woman for not being frugal and blames the other party for not being satisfied. You should know that money is the foundation of a happy marriage, and the couple should have a good plan for the family's assets. The two should discuss and encourage more, and work together to strive for a happy life.
4. Sexual discord
Sexual issues are also one of the factors leading to the breakdown of marital relationships. Nowadays, young couples are more open to sexual activity, which has led to more demands. I want to give it a try, whether it's a variety of fresh sexual techniques or the most popular sex toys at the moment. But for some women, they are still relatively conservative about sex, which can lead to a sense of rejection. And the husband felt that his wife did not understand him, and the wife felt that his husband only cared about his own feelings without considering himself, which over time caused conflicts and led to the breakdown of the relationship.
5. Extramarital rupture
An affair is undoubtedly the deadliest blow to marriage, no matter who it comes from. Some husbands even have extramarital affairs during their wives' pregnancy or lactation, causing their wives to feel unbearable pain. In the vast world, temptation is everywhere, and both men and women should have the ability to resist temptation and self-control. You can have your own confidant of the opposite sex, but you need to be focused and clear of guilt. Only in this way can you create a good marital relationship. Similarly, we should also put more effort into the relationship between husband and wife. Harmonious marital relationships and perfect sexual intercourse are the basic guarantees to prevent extramarital affairs.
The above five factors are the reasons for the soaring divorce demography of post-80s young couples. Everyone must pay more attention to these aspects in order to make the marriage more lasting.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
