The so-called health refers to a man who is mentally and physically healthy. Although some men are physically healthy, they are psychologically unhealthy, which is not considered a healthy man. Male friends are sometimes very fragile. Let's take a look at the fragile psychology of men:
Male psychology: male vulnerability that you never knew about
Past emotional experiences
In the men's circle, showing off how excellent and beautiful the women you once had around you is also a special way for men to prove themselves; But in the face of today's women, they will never easily mention it, because even the unforgettable past is a matter of another world. What's more, even a woman with high quality and self-restraint will inevitably not be able to break the sand pot and ask the truth about the past. If she encounters a "vinegar jar", wouldn't it be like asking for trouble?
Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love the most around them. It is an instinct, a love instinct, to have everything they love. But once I know it, what else will remain besides the pain? Love requires sincerity, but it also requires secrets.
The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and keep love fresh and mysterious. Everyone has a past, without which the present cannot be formed, and no one has the right to trample on the green space of others' hearts at will. Listen to a man's heart: If you love me, don't ask about my past.
A man's vanity
Men are all players, and if a man likes to drive fast and is a center in the football field, his charm in front of women will suddenly increase. So men must always have some real skills, and at the worst, they must play one of them with style, so as not to lose face in front of women. So there's a man who plays tennis for his girlfriend and secretly practices hard himself first. "The house can't be taken away, so there are men who spend all their money buying fancy cars to cheat. It's impossible to borrow a car or rent it for a day to satisfy their vanity.".
In "The Necklace" by Maupassant in high school, the wife of the vain civil servant paid ten years of hard work for a necklace. At that time, vanity was considered the exclusive right of women. After growing up, I realized that men are more vain than women. A woman's vanity is superficial, and a necklace can satisfy a woman's vanity. A man's vanity is intrinsic.
Sexual Anxiety in Men
One theory is that a man develops a sexual fantasy every six minutes, and only when he is busy with it will he never think of it again. After thinking about it every six minutes for six consecutive days, men begin to need to do something about it, but few women know about men's anxiety about sex.
Many men have wondered in their hearts how big this thing can be once they have an erection, before they even had a chance to give their penis a try? They constantly reassure themselves that size is not the key - "it's not about its size, it's about how you use it.". But in fact, the issue of size has always plagued them.
In addition, men are afraid of women who are more skillful in bed than they are. This kind of competition can make them afraid. Of course, when men are not able, they are most afraid of women saying, "Are you sick?" As for prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney deficiency, heart palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., all are notorieties that men dare not face.
In today's life, kidney deficiency seems to be very common among men, especially middle-aged men. Women's tears are gold, and when a woman tells that her other half is not good, people will be very sympathetic. In contrast, it seems that men who fail to do so have committed an unforgivable crime, receiving no sympathy, but disdain from the same kind and being a monster in the eyes of the opposite sex.
Men's Child Psychology
The ideal image of a strong man in a woman's heart, like Takakura, has taught men not to shed tears lightly. Therefore, men have developed a habit of denying their emotions since childhood - removing their teeth and swallowing them into their stomachs, revealing too much childlike affection is a sign of weakness. If something like a Japanese person is crying over a business failure or the dissolution of the Australian cabinet, it must be the headline news that immediately hits the newspapers. Do you know? Therefore, more men suffer from depression than women, and the suicide rate is higher than women.
Every man has more or less an Oedipus complex, especially in men who lacked maternal love when they were young. They often snuggle in the arms of their beloved woman in the dead of night. Of course, this complex does not spread everywhere. The woman in front of him must be his favorite and most trustworthy woman, because only in front of the woman he loves can he feel safe.
Men also act coquettishly, is it fresh? In fact, this is already a "drama" that is often performed in life, but men are reluctant to disclose it in consideration of their "strong" face. But since women can be strong, why can't men be "weak"? This society is becoming richer and more inclusive, so why should we favor one over the other? How tired it is to keep a man taut as the embodiment of strength. Even if they can carry it on their own, don't you feel distressed?
The above are some of the most vulnerable mental states of men, and I hope they can be helpful to everyone. Although men are very strong, they also have a vulnerable side, which requires careful care by women with tenderness and delicacy.