Post Date September, 25 2023
Many men always say that others' wives are the best. If a husband praises someone else's wife, the wife will feel very harsh and uncomfortable, which is a common psychological factor in men. So, why do men always think others' wives are good?
Firstly, the psychological differences between men and women in love
Generally speaking, women belong to the slow heat type in terms of emotions. They love slowly and for a long time, and their love for their husbands is usually from beginning to end. A man's emotions are like a storm, coming and going quickly,. Some men are irresponsible and always hope to have a nanny at home to take care of their family, and a lover outside to comfort their souls. Although he may still love his wife at times, he cannot stop them from having such thoughts.
Secondly, after marriage, the wife no longer cares about her own appearance
Women attach great importance to their external appearance, and when they go out, they always have to polish it for half a day. However, at home, they have no scruples and are in a mess. Perhaps they think that their husbands don't pay attention to their own image, while men usually think that their wife's image makes them a bit disgusted. As wives, women should correct these misconceptions and pay attention to their image in front of their husbands. In order to maintain a perfect image in the eyes of the husband, it is best to dress up every morning before appearing in front of him.
Thirdly, not receiving recognition from his wife
Many wives converse with their husbands in a dignified tone or never praise them, believing that their contributions to the family are natural. This viewpoint is incorrect, as both spouses have family responsibilities and it is natural to sacrifice for the family. If couples often praise each other, express gratitude, and focus on speaking skills, then the relationship will be more harmonious and the family will be happier.
Fourth, make some unfair comparisons
No one is perfect, and men all dream of their wives being perfect. They like to compare their wives to others' wives. But their comparison methods are often unfair. Do not compare your wife's shortcomings with others' strengths, as it is possible that your wife's strengths are not possessed by others. Therefore, some unfair comparisons will inevitably compare your wife to nothing.
Fifth, because couples understand each other too well
There is too much understanding between husband and wife, which also makes husband feel that someone else's wife is good. If the wife actively maintains a little distance from her husband and creates a sense of mystery for him, it is beneficial for maintaining the marriage. Couples can work together to inject some freshness and distance into their marriage, which can enhance their attraction to each other.
The above are the reasons why men think other people's wives are good. Men lose their attractiveness because they are too familiar with their wives and know everything too well. So, it is necessary to preserve a certain amount of personal space between spouses, and wives should pay attention to maintaining their own image. This can enhance mutual attraction and help maintain the relationship between spouses.
