Differences in sexual desire. After men and women mature, their skin is soft, their voice is delicate, and their breasts bulge with prominent male Adam's apple. Their voice is low and their beard grows. In terms of sexual life, the most prominent issue is the inconsistent peak of sexual desire. Men generally have strong sexual desire in their 20s, almost once a day. However, at this time, women who are shy and reserved mostly have a peak of sexual desire in their 40s. However, by this time, men's sexual function and desire have begun to decline. If you are not aware of this difference, couples are prone to sexual conflicts and may also suspect each other.
Sex is an important factor in the attraction between men and women. However, while sexual differences bring happiness to people, they may also cause conflicts. At sex clinics, many couples have problems because they do not understand gender. Here are the most important differences between men and women. Familiarity with these can help men and women better understand each other and enjoy sexual activity.
Different sexual reactions. Both male and female reactions include four stages: libido, excitement, climax, and regression. However, men have shorter cycles, while women who come faster have longer cycles and come slower. So when having sex, men should not rush, slow down appropriately, and women should also be considerate of men. At the same time, in sexual arousal, men are more sensitive to visual and tactile stimuli, while women are more sensitive to auditory and tactile stimuli. Therefore, some people jokingly say that men rely on their eyes for love, while women rely on their ears for love.
Differences in orgasm. During sexual intercourse, as long as men are healthy, most of them can achieve orgasm. Male orgasm is mostly manifested through ejaculation, with a very short ejaculation time of only 3-10 seconds. After ejaculation, orgasm also ends quickly, and the penis gradually detaches from an erection state. There are two ways for women to achieve orgasm: the penis and vagina, but research shows that 10% -30% of women rarely or never reach orgasm. So when having sex, men should take more care of women's feelings.
Sexual psychological differences. Due to the influence of social culture, men attach more importance to their sexual problems and abilities. Once they fail, they will experience significant psychological pressure, self-confidence will be affected, erection difficulties, and premature ejaculation. For women, the main psychological factors that affect sexual activity are fear and shyness, which can lead to sexual disorders, orgasmic disorders, vaginal spasms, and even frigidity.