Sexual Health
What is the correct method of sex education? Parents should pay attention to five aspects of sex education for their children
Post Date August, 11 2023
Many parents attach great importance to their children's sex education, which leads to them sometimes not being able to grasp a certain level and sometimes making their children feel a lot of pressure. Today, experts will learn about the correct methods of sex education with everyone.
Moderate sex education
1、 Encourage children to learn from the opposite sex
Both boys and girls should leverage their "gender" advantages while paying attention to learning from the opposite sex, overcoming their personality weaknesses, and promoting comprehensive physical and mental development and personality improvement. For example, boys should learn more from girls' carefulness, expressiveness, and understanding, while girls should learn more from boys' perseverance, determination, and openness.
2、 Increase opportunities for male and female children to interact
Children should learn from the opposite sex through natural contact, so they should be provided with opportunities to communicate and play together.
3、 It is inappropriate to distinguish Sexual characteristics too clearly
Many personality or behavioral traits (such as enthusiasm and liveliness, independence and autonomy, perseverance, sense of responsibility, understanding, selflessness and kindness, etc.) should be possessed by both genders and should not be regarded as exclusive to a certain gender. Parents should not distinguish too clearly when cultivating children, but should be inclusive - this is an important component of the connotation of "bisexual education".
4、 Let nature take its course
When encouraging children to learn from the opposite sex, it is necessary to let nature take its course and avoid coercion or coercion, otherwise the effect will be counterproductive.
5、 Avoid going to extremes
Encouraging children to learn from the opposite sex also requires "moderation". If a boy has learned too much, he will appear "sissy"; Girls who have learned too much will become 'tomboys' - this is naturally not the original intention of' bisexual education '.
How to correctly guide children's growth
1. Cultivate honesty in children. Let children know that lying is not allowed, and the most important thing in life is honesty and kindness. Children should not be allowed to become experts in lying and choose to lie in order to avoid responsibility. They should not be forced, but should be given a growth environment that fosters honesty.
2. Establish a democratic family environment. In traditional Chinese families, parents hold a high position and belong to high authority, while children do not have their own dominant power, nor do they stimulate their own preferences and potential. This family environment is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. Therefore, it is necessary to establish a democratic family environment, giving children the right to speak and choose.
