Post Date August, 11 2023
A way to keep marriage fresh. If you get married for a long time, you will feel no freshness. How can you make your marriage full of freshness? Below, the editor will give you some advice. Let's quickly learn the following methods for preserving marriage.
1. Exclusive 'heart' time for the two.
Don't just think of the exclusive time between two people as a private moment in bed, or as watching TV at home or going shopping together; Only through spiritual communication can one truly be considered a 'two person exclusive'! Set aside half an hour a week, don't choose cinemas or noisy entertainment venues. Try taking a walk with him in the evening, or sitting on the carpet with a cup of hot tea and talking at home without turning on the TV or computer. For the past half hour, immerse yourself fully in the world of two people, listen to their emotions, and talk about their own thoughts. This way, after forming a habit, the situation of "being together every day, but how come I don't understand you anymore" will never happen between you.
2. Ironing his heart with the phrase 'tired or not?'
A website once conducted a survey and found that the most common phrase a husband would like to hear from his wife is not "I love you" or "you don't have to worry about household chores", but "tired?" or "tired. So although you, the virtuous one, are well aware of his fatigue in your heart and have prepared dinner and steaming bath water for him, you must also ask this sentence out, because rubbing your shoulders soothes his tired body, and this sentence can iron his heart. Especially after returning to your own small home from your mother's house, when he hears this sentence, he will definitely feel that he has married the most caring wife in the world.
In addition, don't think that "the husband gives you a bunch of flowers and the wife gives you a kiss" is the normal intimate scene between husband and wife. Even if he only gives you a vegetable basket or a Briefcase after entering the door, you should still greet him and kiss him. If he asks why in surprise, you can look into his eyes and smile and say, "No why?" This can move his heart more than simply saying 'I love you'.
Sacrifice will bring him humility and tolerance in the future, because the soil most suitable for the growth of love is called understanding.
3. Want praise not to depreciate? Once a month!
Men are sometimes like children, full of love and closeness towards those who often praise them. Saying 'great' when he does it well is just a simple compliment for us, but he can happily carry it in his heart for a long time. If he could praise him vigorously in front of friends and family, such as "If it weren't for my husband at that time" or "You don't know how my dear was that day", then he would be even more happy in his heart. However, you should also pay attention to the frequency of praising him. Praising him once a month is almost enough, otherwise your praise will depreciate!
4. Set a monthly 'cooking day', love is the best seasoning.
Due to lifestyle changes and busy work schedules, it is common for young couples to have meals outside. However, even so, can we try to cook meals at home once a month? Develop a recipe together, buy ingredients together, and when you come home, you help me choose the dishes. I set the table for you, and the taste of the dishes you bring is actually not important anymore, because you love to make seasonings. Through the nourishment of ordinary human smoke and fire, love can withstand the storms of life.
5. Write a love letter with your own handwriting
Besides text messages, phone calls, and emails, have you ever thought of giving him a handwritten letter? With the sweet mood of writing love letters from your school days, write a true letter to your partner every year! Whether it's the other person's birthday, love anniversary, or just an ordinary day that you miss so much about them, it will become an excellent content for love and romance. It will not only make you who wrote this year and the recipient feel the beauty and happiness of love, but in the endless years to come, as long as your fingertips flip over the letter, the love hidden inside will still emanate, lasting and fragrant.
6. Change the house and discover love
Women want to change their homes at least once a year, so the next time they want to make changes to their homes, bring him along and do it together! What kind of furniture to change, what kind of color tone to add, and what decorations to add in our bedroom. Watching the new home carrying common hope gradually appear in front of us, the dependence and love between each other will also become stronger.
7. Come on a 'fill in the blanks' tour!
It's not difficult to travel with him once a year. Traveling with a loved one doesn't matter how long it takes or whether the destination is romantic. The key is whether it can warm up the love between you two. If all that remains in my memory after traveling is fatigue, complaints, and a pile of photos, it's better to stay at home honestly! So why not try choosing a tourist destination like this, such as the small city where you spent your childhood, or the water town where he went to school before he even met you. Fill in the gaps left by the other person in your life and let him serve as a tour guide. Is there anything more suitable for heating up love than this kind of tourism?
