When love comes to pots and pans of oil, salt, soy sauce, and vinegar, all the shortcomings between you suddenly erupt, and the man's heart begins to cry incessantly. Let's take a look at the 'wild thoughts' hidden in men's hearts
1. The more women love, the braver men become.
A man does not reject fulfilling his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how much she is intoxicated with the happiness of living with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and wife without hesitation. On the contrary, if a man is uncertain about his family and women's feelings and even has unnecessary worries, he will act like a rogue.
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2. Having a broad mind and truly understanding men's shortcomings and faults.
Men attach much more importance to their families and women than women imagine, and they are always accustomed to treating their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and always open their arms to welcome them back.
3. Women must maintain hygiene and love cleanliness.
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and remains indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they believe that their family and their women are their true faces.
4. Men need the title of head of a family.
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what men demand is just a status. They are so lazy, how can they take on the responsibility of buying groceries and washing dishes voluntarily? It is like in a constitutional monarchy, the prime minister decides everything, but the dignity and prestige of the king cannot be ignored.
5. Women should not confront men when they are angry.
The pressure and hardships that men endure in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. So men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but rather venting their depressed emotions. At this point, men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and they need women to pay a considerable price of injustice. A tit for tat argument undoubtedly adds fuel to the fire for men.
6. Men also have jealousy.
Men are no less jealous than women, and there are far more men who are prone to life-threatening battles and die under the sword of their rivals in love. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's mixed self-esteem and vanity mentality, and be cautious in dealing with men's doubts and speculations. Proactively explaining the reasons and process of interacting with other men is not only a genuine understanding and concern for their own men, but also a supervision of women's words and actions.
7. Don't compare your husband and family to others.
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family to others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand women's original intentions and desires, and only subjectively believe that women are criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
Understanding a man is treating him as your lover, friend, father, or child. Love him, don't burden him, give him freedom, give yourself freedom. You need to know when to enter and when to exit. When should I stand in front of him; When should we hide behind him. Take care of him as if he were you, and only by fulfilling his happiness can he fulfill your happiness.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)