Post Date April, 15 2023
Reader's Letter:
My husband suddenly wants to divorce me. We have been married for ten years and have a four year old child, and I don't want to leave. I have been working hard for the past month, but he is just getting bored. I'm not sure if he has an affair, but there are clues, and I'm very hurt. I just want to find the right way to retrieve his heart, what should I do? I would appreciate your comments. What can I do and say to make him change his mind, not annoy men, and make men like him? What should I do?
reply:
Hello, based on the situation you described, it is highly likely that your husband has had an affair, otherwise he would not easily divorce you. Many times, this is the case. Just because the surface is calm does not mean there are no turbulent times. Emotions can also be unpredictable. Some couples often argue or even fight and make noise together, but they never separate. However, some couples may fall in love and not fall in love. Do you try to sort out some aspects of your husband's aversion to you, such as whether you are not gentle enough, not virtuous enough, not dressing up too well, or too strong? In short, as long as you know how to find the reasons from yourself and effectively improve yourself, I think when your husband sees that you have indeed changed, he will weigh the pros and cons of divorce with you. Perhaps your husband's sudden divorce was an impulse, or perhaps an outburst of dissatisfaction with the marital status quo. Anyway, you just try your best. Emotions are often something that can only be fought for, but cannot be forcibly kidnapped. When there is still love between each other, and when it can be saved, cherish it hard. If it is impossible to reconcile, you can only let nature take its course. So, whether it's a relationship or a marriage, there's no once and for all, and there's no smooth sailing. It's important to always understand the existence of risks, be mentally and mentally prepared, or make the worst plan, so as not to be caught off guard or unsure when things come up. The best way to make a man feel at ease is to let him experience and compare which woman is better for him, more considerate and attentive to him.
