Post Date April, 15 2023
Women's emotions are relatively precocious. When they shed tears for Xu Zhimo's poetry in the wind, boys are still playing video games or indulging in "Star Wars". As their intellectual maturity gradually matures, they may still be an "idiot child" in handling emotions. Women are therefore qualified to teach men love lessons.
However, men who appear dull and not good at showing love also have their own set of "love classics". Their rational view of love may provide another inspiration to women who are often misled by love.
Let's take a look at some useful techniques commonly used by men.
Why consider him as the whole of life
A woman in love loves air, sunshine, and water, but apart from love, she has nothing and nothing to ask for.
The complete dedication of women to love is so touching, while men are relatively more ruthless. Even in a passionate relationship, they still have the ability to be ruthless and refuse to recognize their six relatives. As soon as they step into the office, their minds only have programs and business experience; After parting with you, your beautiful shadow may temporarily disappear from his memory. In fact, men are not ruthless, they are just relatively practical, which does not mean they love you less.
Playboy magazine once conducted a survey asking men what is the biggest factor leading to happiness. They don't hesitate to put love at the forefront of their work, they just don't indulge in love fantasies like women do. Most women will not deny that when they receive a call from their partner, no matter what she is doing at the time, you can always capture the message of love from her face. Her eyes are shining, her voice is sweet and soft. She may still be working, but her thoughts are already on her lover. But her lover, perhaps engrossed in her work, whose efficiency would be higher?
His thinking is straight cars
The sensitivity of women and the rationality of men are like two poles of a magnetic field. When love attracts both parties, their ideas still diverge and their focus on care is also different. Women often ask: why don't you wear the tie I gave you, why were you still typing on the computer when I called you, and so on.
Compared to women's love, men care more directly: do you have a boyfriend? Are you free on weekend evenings? Do you want to see me? A man will never circle around and will not calculate your feelings for him based on how many words you say to him in a day. What he wants is a clear answer. Men and women have vastly different ways of thinking, which determines that when men see things, they are like a car running on the road, moving from A to B in a straight line and rarely deviating from the track. After understanding men's "straight car" thinking style, perhaps you should know how to handle "thinking collisions".
Distance creates beauty
On their first date, most girls are usually quiet and reserved, but at the age of 35, Qiming has encountered several overly lively and outgoing girls. After saying "Hello", they continue to talk, and the topic is too dense to delve into. After scaring Qiming into a perfunctory manner, he fled in despair. How can a girl like this be loved? Who knows how many people she has told about the mole on her leg? I dare not learn. Don't talk too much about her new boyfriend unless your intention is to scare him away. Why break the mystery of oneself completely when the flowers look even redder in the mist? Moderate silence can make intimate relationships flow more smoothly.
If you confess all your secrets to the other person before establishing an intimate relationship, it may make you feel bored and without any mystery in their eyes, and the two of you will come to an end from then on. When women look at the friendship between men, they feel that they have reservations and maintain distance, as if it is not true friendship; But in fact, this is another form of intimate relationship, where friends can fish together all day without discussing any topics, yet still feel very close. Why can't women imitate men at this point?
