1、 The more women love, the more brave men are.
Men do not refuse to do their duty to their families and women. If a man can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how intoxicated his wife is in the happiness of living with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and wife without hesitation. On the contrary, if a man is not sure about his family and women's feelings or even has unnecessary worries, he will behave like a rogue. When it comes to family and their own women, men like to hear the answer like Mrs. Eisenhower: "The greatest career life brings to a woman is to be a wife."
2、 Have a broad mind and truly understand men's shortcomings and faults.
Men attach more importance to their families and women than women think. They are always used to treating their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. So they hope that their success and failure can be fully contained here, and they will welcome them back with open arms no matter when.
3、 Women must be hygienic and clean.
Although they are lazy and dirty, they can't tolerate a woman who doesn't wash her face or feet and is indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they think their family and their women are their real faces.
4、 Men need the title of head of family.
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really control anything. In fact, what men ask for is just a place of honor. How can they take the initiative to buy vegetables and wash dishes when they are so lazy? It is like in a constitutional monarchy, where the Prime Minister decides everything, but the dignity and authority of the king cannot be ignored.
5、 Men are afraid of loneliness.
Psychologically, men are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men go out for a drink every night or sleep at a friend's house. It is not that they like drinking or are very close to friends. The real reason for them is that they are afraid of being alone. Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose the whereabouts of their women or they come back late or even don't come back, they are scared like naked nuns in the downtown area.
6、 Don't expect a man's family to look the same.
Women often complain that men are different from each other at home and abroad. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but he is like a tyrant to me? Why can't he treat me better? In fact, women need not worry about it. Because politeness is always just a social need, and excessive politeness is harmful to the family. When a man is very polite to a woman, it only means that he has lost his love for her or has done something wrong to her.
7、 Women should not fight a man when he is angry.
Women can't experience the pressure and suffering that men bear in society, and this kind of bad mood is likely to be brought home by them. So men often find fault with women or lose their temper with them without reason. When they are angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but are venting their depressed mood. At this time, men most need women's understanding and acceptance, and women need to pay a fair price. A tit-for-tat quarrel is undoubtedly fuelling the fire for men.
8、 Men also have jealousy.
Men are no less jealous than women, and are prone to fight with each other. There are far more men who die under the sword of the duel of lovers than women who are jealous and tear their face. If a woman really loves her man, she should try to understand the man's attitude mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and be careful with the man's suspicion and speculation. Actively explaining the reason and process of their interaction with other men is not only a real understanding and concern for their men, but also a supervision of their words and deeds by women.
9、 Don't talk freely about right and wrong at home.
Don't show your dirty linen. The right and wrong in the family is a thing that can't be explained clearly. If we add the gossip from the outside, the man's self-esteem will collapse completely. At that time, even if a man is willing to reconcile, he is still riding a tiger. If a woman really wants to solve the problem, her only choice is to close the door and negotiate slowly. Because the principle of men's domestic affairs is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in the internal affairs.
10、 Don't compare your husband and family with others.
In the eyes of men, women compare their men and families with others, which is a serious betrayal of their men and families. They can't understand women's original intention and wishes in good faith, but only subjectively think that women are finding fault with them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think impassively, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
To be considerate of a man is to treat him as your lover, lover, brother, friend, father and child. Love him, don't burden him, give him freedom, give yourself freedom. You should know when to enter and when to leave. When should I stand in front of him; When should I hide behind him. Take care of him as you do, and only when you complete his happiness will he complete your happiness.