A perfect marriage is like a glass of Shaojiu. It hurts to get cold and scald your mouth. 37 degrees is just right, and so is the relationship between husband and wife. 37 degrees is the best temperature for lasting a relationship.
Temperature difference
People who rate their marriage often give a score of only 2 when their husband gives a score of 7 for marital satisfaction. This is called the "temperature difference" in marriage. People who want to truly manage their marriage will rate their marital temperature to understand the problems that exist between the couple. Take a temperature measurement for your marriage, it's a good method. It's like a person's body temperature, and the ideal marriage temperature is 37 degrees. It is precisely this temperature that enables couples to achieve mutual respect, mutual care, no arguments, no conflicts, only laughter and gratitude.
High temperature
Let us be companions in the world of mortals, doing things with ease and grandeur, sharing the prosperity of the world. This is the most ideal. However, if our marriage is exposed to a scorching heat for a long time, it is inevitable that we will encounter a "fever" attack, burning ourselves while also burning each other. If a couple holds their own opinions and refuses to obey each other in marriage, they will inevitably argue, naturally speaking loudly and difficult to communicate. Even if they apologize afterwards, the scar will still exist and will not disappear. Furthermore, if the wife regards her husband as her "private property" after marriage, sticking to her every day, like the GPS implanted by the police in criminals, keeping the marriage in a hot state at all times, the marriage will sooner or later sound an alarm. So, to avoid a "fire", lower the temperature appropriately.
Low temperature
Comparison is the only way to distinguish. If there is a high temperature in marriage, there is naturally a low temperature. If the temperature in marriage drops to the freezing point. In this way, couples in marriage will naturally be like Iran and Iraq, constantly fighting and unable to reconcile. Over time, the grudges in their hearts will deepen, until the final "meeting like ice". Sorrow is never greater than death of heart. Couples always avoid the obstacles in marriage, which can only make each other's marriage more painful. When one day they suddenly repent and then adjust their marriage, it is not possible without great effort. So, in order to achieve a perfect marriage temperature, it is necessary to communicate more, understand the other party's thoughts, and make corresponding improvements, rather than engaging in personal attacks. If your husband has not been gentle with you for a long time, playing coquettish will not drop a piece of meat, which avoids embarrassment and war, and can also warm up the relationship between each other. At the same time, your husband will increase his love for you because of your coquettish behavior, why not do it?
37 degrees
Marriage is spent in tolerance and being accepted, so giving each other some space appropriately allows each other to have moments to lower their temperature. When a couple is too sweet, it is important to learn to turn the tide. When a couple's relationship is too cold, it is understandable to learn to be a bit bored. It is normal to understand how much love is bored. The wife encourages her husband to go out and gather with friends. The husband can help her wash the dishes, wipe the floor, and show her love in her heart. This is the only way to be happy and most helpful for marriage. So, no 42 degrees, no 15 degrees, 37 degrees is just right.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)