In marriage, the most important thing we should master is how to handle the problems in marriage, and how to keep our love fresh and never fade. Like that slogan, a perfect marriage requires careful management by each other. Yes, in order for our marriage to remain beautiful, we need to master the following key points:
Point 1: Clarify responsibilities
The selfishness in marriage is actually the most unwise thing in the end. We must clarify each other's responsibilities in marriage. In marriage, a husband should be positive, make his career successful, and make women feel happy. The wife should encourage her husband to take care of his small family and let him have no worries on the way to struggle.
Point 2: Solving the problem
In this new relationship of marriage, we must have many problems to solve, and the first three major issues to bear the brunt are. The economic problem is the first one that you need to solve. If you negotiate the financial power, you can reduce the disputes caused by the economy. At the same time, a harmonious sexual life between couples is also very important, which can play a role in lubricating and buffering conflicts and differences.
Key point 3: Exerting function
Marriage, like country, is a name for a certain relationship, but there must be a unique function behind this name. In marital life, the husband and wife are united, and their benefits determine their wealth. Living together will develop a common lifestyle. In the long run, you will learn more about each other, have a deeper understanding of each other, and work together for your family and your future. You will find that on the road to struggle, you have more determination and confidence than working alone.
Point 4: Understand the needs
Marriage is not a selfless place where we only have to give without return. In marriage, we should be clear about everyone's own needs. Understand each other's needs, so that we can get along better. Men desire to be worshipped, treated gently, supported, and recognized, so wives should make their husbands feel these things in marriage. The husband should give his wife a sense of security, a sense of being spoiled, and a sense of living in a romantic life.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)