Extramarital love is despised and resented by people, whether it is out of traditional morality or legal norms, and the harm it brings to marriage and family cannot be described in words. Although many extramarital affairs may only be impulsive and may be eliminated automatically as time goes by, there are still many women who can't bear the impulse of their husbands and lead to marriage breakdown.
Can't be too extreme in the face of extramarital love
The breakdown of marriage, in addition to the mistakes of the husband and the mistress, has a great deal to do with the failure of women to face it with the correct understanding and methods. However, taking extreme measures to treat it makes it impossible to repair the cracks in marriage. Therefore, when a smart woman encounters a mistress in marriage, she should adopt some clever ways to defeat the mistress invisibly.
Many women often have a very bad attitude when facing the third child. If their wives "cry and hang", beat and scold the third child, and hold hysterical grudges against men, it will not only make each other lose face, but also encourage the determination of men to leave.
Every relationship should be respected. Even extramarital love is only the wrong time, space and place. Therefore, it is best not to take an extreme approach to a junior, because there are few people in the world who really regard emotion as a play. Therefore, when dealing with the third child, you should learn to overcome hardness with softness, so that your husband and the third child can see your gentleness. Don't yell at her or fight with her, because this is the reflection of her self-cultivation. Let her feel your energy and charm.
Guide the husband out of the misunderstanding of extramarital love
In today's society full of temptations, many men have entered into the misunderstanding of extramarital love in a trance. At this time, it is necessary for his wife to find out in time and persuade him to return to his family in time. There are many women who are not willing to face this fact with the mentality of self-deception, but in fact, it is much better to clearly understand the beginning and end of the matter than to pretend that they do not know. Only by solving the problem well, can their body and mind be relaxed, otherwise, not only the wife's heart will not be peaceful, but also the marriage will be ruined.
Of course, if the husband is an incurable philanderer, his persuasion has no effect, and the relationship between husband and wife has completely broken down, at this time, as a woman, she should learn to protect herself, and be prepared for mental, physical and property responses. Let yourself be able to deal with it in private or in court, and leave a way to start a new life.
Minimize the harm of extramarital love
Men's extramarital love is terrible, and its harm to women may be fatal. If women face their husbands' extramarital love in the wrong way, they will sprinkle another handful of salt on their own wounds. The pain is conceivable. Any extramarital love, as long as it starts, is accompanied by injury. What women can do is try to minimize this kind of injury. If you want to retain a man's growing heart, you must be rational. This kind of reason includes tolerance for the husband and the mistress, and also includes the final payment and retention of marriage life.