Unmarried female, aged 22-28 years old, with a height of 163-172 centimeters, beautiful, symmetrical body shape, and good skin; Kind and gentle, pure and sunny, with high overall quality.
This is a marriage proposal from a certain diamond king. 100 qualified female recommenders will receive a cash reward of 500 yuan; If the candidate ultimately establishes a romantic relationship with the diamond man, the recommender will receive a cash reward of 200000 yuan.
Xu Tianli, the president of a matchmaking website, the organizer of the event, said that such a matchmaking is indeed a bit high-profile. However, the vast majority of members on this website are composed of small diamond men, also known as high-end leftover men.
In fact, in the eyes of outsiders, men who have unlimited scenery, a house, a car, and a career are not as dominant in marriage as people imagine. Xu Tianli said that due to the misunderstanding of diamond men in society, this group of people also face the embarrassment and helplessness of being left behind.
Diamond King Lao Wu=Senior Left Man?
200000 yuan reward for marriage proposal, causing troubles for diamond man
Misunderstanding 1
I'm a diamond man. I'm not in a hurry
When my relatives and friends talk about my personal problems with my parents, they always comfort me with the words "A young man with such good conditions is worried about not finding a good wife?" In fact, I pretend to be calm on the surface, but my heart is extremely anxious. I have never wanted to take my daughter-in-law home for the Chinese New Year like this year.
——Shen Shen, 31 years old, senior employee of an IT company, unmarried
The more you see it, the more urgent it becomes
Beautiful appearance, excellent education, with a house and a car, earning a monthly income of 30000 yuan. Such conditions are definitely lethal to girls, but Shen Shen still remains.
Previously, I didn't have money and didn't dare to pursue girls; now that I have money, I am lost. "The girls who Shen Shen has met have at least one queue, almost digging up all the resources of her friends around her. I have already fallen into a strange circle, where the more I see it, the more urgent it becomes, the more I see it. "Shen Shen said, as long as he has time, he will browse various matchmaking websites, but the effect is minimal.
The original intention of building a website was to find a wife for oneself
Xu Tianli's biggest achievement in establishing this website was finding his current partner. At that time, I was just in my early thirties and had a successful career, surrounded by a bunch of leftover men. We were wondering why I had good conditions, but nobody claimed it
Find it on your own, with limited contact. Search online for matchmaking services, but feel that the quality varies. I have found a breakthrough point, which is to simply build a website on my own to specifically solve the marriage and love problems of high-end leftover men like us
The website was built in 2005, and Xu Tianli soon met his current wife, who felt so beautiful that he felt like a gift from heaven.
Misunderstanding 2
Favorite young and beautiful girls
Yes, men like beautiful women, I don't deny that. But when it comes to marrying a wife, we think more about it than others, and young and beautiful girls actually don't score high.
——Mr. Xu, 37 years old, boss, married
No time to play with 'children'
I got married at the end of 2009, and my wife is 3 years younger than me. According to the popular saying, what I am looking for is a typical leftover woman. "In the summer of 2006, Mr. Xu from Shandong met his current wife, who is a fashion designer in his thirties.
Both of them are very busy. Although they live in the same city, the first time they met was after a few months of phone contact. She has a very good mentality and doesn't hate getting married at all, "Mr. Xu said. The first time we met, both of them were very ordinary, without any disappointment or surprise. They just felt that the other person was good and could continue dating.
What attracts me the most is that she is down-to-earth, kind and considerate, very understanding and supportive of my work. Mr. Xu said that his ideal wife must be an open-minded, generous, and independent person. Although a young and beautiful girl has an advantage in appearance, she is not mature. I don't have time to play with children and I don't have the patience to wait for them to grow up
Young and beautiful people are afraid to find them
I came from my hometown in Anhui to work in Hangzhou, and 10 years later, except for my wife, 34 year old Jianping had everything in the house and car company.
To be honest, I don't trust young girls, especially those who are young and beautiful. They are too materialistic, "Jianping said." Sometimes I get to the point of sensitivity. Girls like to talk about clothes and jewelry, and I think, 'Would you ask me to buy a pile?' When girls talk about houses, I think, 'Would you let me buy a luxury house?' It's not easy for me to earn this money, and I don't want others to enjoy it for nothing
In Jianping's opinion, he may not be able to accept dating a young beauty for a lifetime, so he chose this marriage website because there are two data that make him very moved. 30% of female members of the website are over 28 years old, and the probability of successful member pairing is 80%.
Misunderstanding 3
We always pick people
Let me pick a bunch of girls? NO, there's no such good fate. Speaking up, don't joke. I don't know how many times I have been politely rejected, and my self-esteem has been severely damaged. Later on, I realized that I am not a big star, why must I be accepted by others.
——Mr. Sun, 38 years old, boss, married
When he was young, Mr. Sun had an impulsive marriage, and the cost of divorce made him grow rapidly and strive to become a successful person. At first, I felt very good. Didn't everyone say that divorced men are a treasure? I also have some money, so I should be one of the hot sellers
After encountering multiple outstanding women, I didn't taste the taste of "being the hottest among the hottest", but rather took a bit of a beating. These girls have good personal conditions and naturally have the opportunity to meet men with good conditions. However, my initial mindset was a bit aloof, thinking too much of myself
The website staff took a look and helped him conduct several personality analyses, introducing him to a woman who had also been divorced. At first, I didn't necessarily think about her, but after several encounters, I felt that she had both inner and outer qualities, and such a woman was rare. Now, Mr. Sun has become a family.