Post Date July, 06 2023
The implicit and inherent concept of ancient Chinese people was that they would turn pale when it comes to sex. Although this is not the case today, it is not as open as in Europe, America, and Japan. Most Chinese people's understanding of sex may come from unprofessional books, videos, etc. The lack of sex education has led us to not actually understand sex, let alone ourselves, and easily fall into some sexual related misconceptions, which can lead to physical and mental health injuries.
What common questions should we know about sex to avoid misunderstandings?
1. Can pain prove bulkiness
When a normally erect penis is gently and thoughtfully inserted into the vagina, even for the first time, there will be no strong pain. If it feels pain, most of it is too tense and needs to be comforted by the other party. If there is tearing pain, it must be that the male is too intense, too rude, and lacks respect for the female. If you want a woman to experience pain to prove that your penis size is normal, then there is no need to pay attention to the woman's feelings and achieve physical and mental integration during the sexual process, rather than appearing as a so-called conqueror or. Your ability to demonstrate is to make the woman happy, not to make her uncomfortable. If you view a woman's pain as an ability, then your skills are also too poor.
2. Is it possible to have seven times a night
There will be an refractory period from the erection of the male penis to ejaculation, and there will be no refractory period after the female achieves Orgasm, which means that if a female achieves several Orgasm, there is a physiological basis. However, it is rare for men to reach six or seven Orgasm in one night, if any, but the statement of seven times a night makes many people think that men should be able to reach it. If a woman does not know this, it is impotence to laugh at the other's failure, which may hit the dignity of men's sex and lead to emotional breakdown.
3. Do you understand condoms
Condoms have a shelf life. Before using a condom that is pressed on the bottom of the box, check the shelf life first. It won't take much time, but it can save a lot of trouble. It's best not to use a condom that doesn't have a shelf life. Don't feel wasted or guilty. If you think you don't need to wear a condom after taking short acting contraceptives, it's really foolish. Wearing a condom is to protect both parties and prevent illness.
4. Do you need to communicate after sex
It can be very emotional for both men and women to do their own things after sex. In this regard, different people have different ideas. Some people want to continue to be gentle and do not want their partner to leave, while others want to clean up. This requires both parties to discuss and communicate, accommodate each other, and never be complacent, causing misunderstandings from the other party. This is the moment of spiritual communication, which is very important.
