Women's "aversion to sex" is due to a male mindset, and men should be good at observing

In marital life, many men find that their partners are not very enthusiastic about sex, and when a man makes sexual demands, they often do not receive a positive response from her. After the start of sex, when a man often appears tired but struggling to do it, it makes him feel that she is not doing it for himself, but for the satisfaction of the man. Although men may be careless, at this moment, they are still good at observation and speculation. So, they unconsciously formed the impression that women dislike men's sexual demands.  

In fact, this is completely a false surface phenomenon. Women do not really dislike sex, and their aversion reactions are mostly intentional or unintentional. Men can say this, women's minds are really unpredictable; Just like it, why pretend? Speaking of it, it's still the man's fault. In a masculinization society, all social concepts are characterized by male superiority.

The moral evaluations made by men not only have an impact on women, but also have a determining effect on them. Under the influence of traditional sexual beliefs, men often use whether they love sex as a standard to measure women. In the depths of their consciousness, there is still a strange moment lurking: 'Good women do not like sex and do not crave sexual pleasure, otherwise they are bad women'. For the good women in their minds, they are given the praise of "dignified and demure", but the implicit meaning is not to praise their elegant behavior, but to say that they maintain their chastity and do not engage in sexual intercourse. This mentality is most evident among fans who idolize female movie stars and go crazy.

Those female celebrities in their minds are simply like the Virgin Mary, incredibly pure, forever, not only do not engage in sexual affairs, but also do not even defecate. There has been a situation abroad where a female celebrity is preparing to get married, and her fans are extremely angry. On her wedding day, there were demonstrations on the streets, and some even attempted suicide. For the bad women in their minds, men often use words such as "coquettish" or even "lewd" to describe them. The underlying meaning is not to praise her for being good at sex, but to condemn and disdain their behavior of seeking pleasure from sex.