Post Date April, 15 2023
1. On a date
The man: His expected date is a leisurely time where he can taste delicious food and wine, and flirt with his girlfriend.
Woman: Your ideal date is a sweet and romantic interaction between two people, coupled with a constructive conversation about your intimate relationship.
Evaluation: Unfortunately, men do not automatically tune their chat content from daily conversations to "deep" topics just because flowers and candles are placed on the dining table; That is to say, he is unlikely to spend all day on dates discussing his childhood and family, your future, his aspirations, and so on.
In fact, the factor that can trigger his eloquence is usually the topic of your conversation (if he is interested), rather than the romantic atmosphere. Therefore, engaging in a dialogue on a mutually recognized platform is essential for you to hear what you expect to hear.
2. After the argument
Man: He hopes that after the argument ends, there will be a "ceasefire" and everything will return to normal.
Woman: Although the positive argument between them has ended, he can't help but think about it and become increasingly angry because he looks completely like nothing has happened.
Evaluation: Firstly, you must understand that he is not insensitive or indifferent. Basically, the concept of men is: after all, it's all over. Why don't we just "get back together"! However, he couldn't have said these words. Men's anger comes and goes quickly, so they recover to normal faster than women after a fight.
Therefore, you may as well tell him that although the argument has ended, your emotions have not yet calmed down; In this way, he will understand that you are still more or less angry. Next, ask him to sit on the sofa with you for a while, or go out for a walk with you.
3. After waking up
Man: His mind is full of things that will happen soon after going out, such as whether there will be traffic jams on the way to work, whether the data required by the boss is ready, or whether the meeting with the client can proceed smoothly.
Woman: You hope the two of you can say goodbye, chat more before each person starts work, and even discuss the post work program.
Comment: Try starting your day with practical and specific things! For example, eating breakfast, watching TV news or listening to radio - weather and road reports can help his brain "warm up". As for the evening program, wait until you enter the office before sending a text message to discuss it with him.
