Dr. Wang Yanling, deputy director of the psychological consultation department of the China-Japan Friendship Hospital, said that the men who are afraid of wives are relatively gentle and delicate, can respect women, and are good at understanding people's hearts. And men who are afraid of wives are healthier in psychology, diet, work and rest, and exercise. Fear of wife can also lead to fear of health.
Wife phobia is more regular
"Dear husband, come back from work for dinner", married men should often hear such words. Under the sweet "lewdness" of his wife, henpecked men generally dare not say that they have entertainment outside, but go home to eat the food cooked by "the wife". Compared with the food in restaurants outside, the food at home will be cleaner and less oil and salt.
In addition, the man who is afraid of wife is also afraid to be choosy about the meals carefully cooked by his lovely wife. "Eat fruit and eat more vegetables". Wife afraid men are more willing to accept their wife's healthy diet suggestions. In this way, men are forced to accept a balanced diet to ensure a healthy diet. In addition, for smoking, drinking and other bad eating habits that are repeatedly prohibited. Men who are afraid of wives are more likely to quit under the guidance of their wives' sweet words.
In addition, henpecked men have no chance and dare not go home too late or at night. They always go home early after work. In this way, the henpecked man unconsciously established a healthy working and rest time of going to bed early and getting up early. It avoids going out all day to socialize, socialize and stay up late for a long time. Therefore, it also avoids problems such as endocrine disorders, neurasthenia, headache, gastrointestinal problems and so on.
Wife afraid men exercise more
Exercise is an important factor to maintain vitality and health. Maintaining moderate exercise every day can increase heart and lung function, improve heart and blood circulation system, consume calories, and accelerate metabolism. However, under the pressure of fast-paced and high-intensity work in modern society, not everyone can spare a few hours every day to activate muscles and bones and do sports.
"Husband, go shopping with me", "Husband, go to wash a bowl". The wife is so coquettish that she "enslaves" her husband. Some men feel that it is bad for men to go shopping with their wives and help with housework. However, out of respect and love for his wife, a man who is afraid of his wife will accept his wife's invitation to go shopping and share the housework. In fact, this will seize the opportunity to exchange feelings and do sports. In addition, Wang Yanling believes that men do housework is also a kind of psychological pressure relief and relaxation.
Wife phobic men are psychologically healthier
Some men feel that only when they bear all the burdens of the family can they be called men. But in fact, men should not always bear pressure silently. Wife afraid men communicate with their wives in everything, compromise and avoid, and often create a good family atmosphere.
Wang Yanling believes that in today's society, men still take more social roles. During the economic crisis, many people were overwhelmed and tried to escape by suicide. When the family as a whole is in crisis, men know that they are not fighting alone, and the psychological pressure will be greatly reduced.
Some men worry that once they concede in the family, they will show weakness. I'm worried that my wife will be more and more superior to me. In response, Wang Yanling said with a smile, "Based on my clinical experience over the past decades, the efforts and rewards of both men and women in marriage are two-way and mutual. In the family, sometimes the husband comes forward, sometimes the wife comes forward, which is also conducive to maintaining a good family relationship and further maintaining the health of men."
Wife phobia can also lead to longevity. Such men can respect women, love their wives, love their families and love their children. conscientious. In this way, the family will be completely happy. For more information, please pay attention to the men's channel.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)