There is a popular saying nowadays: 'Wife is better than others'! Why is this?
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
After getting married, a man gets along with his wife day and night, living together in a circle. With time, the novelty gradually fades away, and his wife's speech and behavior are clear, so he is somewhat dissatisfied. Looking at other women is just like looking at his own wife, full of curiosity and novelty.
The reason why it is fresh is because there is some distance, like looking at flowers in a fog, hazy, as if it is not clear. Men only capture surface phenomena of light and shadow, and cannot see the essence of things. This haziness can create a kind of beauty. As the saying goes, a farewell is better than a new marriage, and the same goes for it.
The perspective of appreciation is different
The perspective from which a husband admires his wife is completely different from that of other women. A man looks at his wife from his husband's perspective, and he always hopes that his wife is perfect and superior to others. He wants to "go out of the hall, go out of the kitchen". Men, on the other hand, tend to observe other women from the perspective of friends, colleagues, and classmates. They must be humble, friendly, and show gentlemanly demeanor in their interactions.
The perspective from which a husband admires his wife is completely different from that of other women. A man looks at his wife from his husband's perspective, and he always hopes that his wife is perfect and superior to others. He wants to "go out of the hall, go out of the kitchen". Men, on the other hand, tend to observe other women from the perspective of friends, colleagues, and classmates. They must be humble, friendly, and show gentlemanly demeanor in their interactions.