Introduction
When couples live, the normal duration is about 5-15 minutes. Therefore, most people believe that the longer the duration of each couple's life, the more sexual satisfaction they can obtain. This view is not scientific.
Studies on sexual physiology have shown that each couple's physique and living habits are different, so it is difficult to establish a standard for how long a couple's life should last.
?? Reasons for disharmony in husband and wife's life
1. Mental disorders
When you first become a husband and wife, the "disharmony" that occurs in their lives is mostly due to inadequate psychological preparation, confusion, and psychogenic disorders, and the woman's problems are more serious.
Many women have insufficient understanding of "sex", are overly idealistic or do not understand it at all, or some women have had sexual experiences that have been unsuccessful, which can affect the couple's marital life, resulting in psychological barriers when truly engaging in marital life.
2. Stressful life
The main reason for this phenomenon is still work pressure. The acceleration of the pace of social life and the fierce competition have made professional women feel incomparable pressure in their work and life. Therefore, being busy and nervous makes them neglect the important marital life.
?? What to do if the couple's life is not harmonious?
1. Cultivate more emotions at ordinary times
Couple life is the enjoyment of life by two people together, enjoying the joy and love in their world. If we treat couple life as a task, we lose the meaning of this kind of life.
Therefore, couples should actively cultivate their emotions in daily life, communicate more with each other in life, and establish a harmonious emotional life.
2. Make couples' lives more regular
Many couples lack effective communication and family life, leading to emotional breakdown and even divorce. In order to make up for the lack of emotion and achieve a tacit understanding between them, both parties agree to achieve a more regular marital life, which can not only meet the requirements of both parties, but also strengthen the intimacy between the spouses and improve the quality of life enjoyment.
3. Mutual understanding and understanding
For the quality of life of a husband and wife, both parties must make efforts and efforts. Do not blame any one person for the stress of the husband and wife's life. You must integrate the husband and wife's life into everyone's heart. Both parties must understand and support each other, so that emotions can live and mutual trust and love between the husband and wife can be enhanced.