Oral speaker: Xiaoxiao, female, 26 years old
She cheated time and time again, and he forgave time and time again. What makes happiness hover on a cliff?
During Ah Quan's sales time, he was often away from home, sometimes without even a phone call. I always felt anxious and needed something to fill it. So, I went to a fitness training class and met the coach there. His heart is very delicate and he cares about me very much. He always sends me home after training. Ah Quan cannot do this.
After the coach's wife came to the house and caused trouble, everyone knew about it. I was also beaten up by Ah Quan and rushed back to my mother's house. Fortunately, Ah Quan finally realized that he didn't care enough about me and changed his job.
But the good times didn't last long. For a while, their company conducted evaluations, and he began to work overtime frequently. As soon as he works overtime, he forgets how lonely I am alone. He knew I didn't have many friends and my life was all about him, but he didn't let me protest yet. He just bought me a computer and asked me to play games to pass the time when I had free time.
On the internet, I ran into my first boyfriend from 8 years ago. He said he lost a lot of money in his business and wanted to die. Before he died, he wanted to see me for the last time. We drank a lot of alcohol and each shared our frustrations in life. When it comes to the sweetness of the past, I lose control again.
It's really unlucky to be seen by Ah Quan with his own eyes this time. I am very afraid that he will drive me away again, divorce me, and confess everything. Unexpectedly, in the end, he forgave me again and was even more considerate towards me.
I warn myself not to make mistakes again. So, I focused all my energy on Ah Quan and took care of everything at home with all my heart. However, some things are beyond one's control. A netizen asked me to meet and he was so good at making women happy. We accidentally opened a room and had sex
This time, Ah Quan has already signed the divorce agreement and is only waiting for me to sign it. In the first few days, my mother heard that we were getting divorced and came specifically from my hometown to persuade me. I know she's doing it for me, but I don't like her, let alone listen to her. Speaking of it, today's situation is also closely related to her.
My mother is beautiful and capable, and I have been relying on her since I was young. My father is very busy. Although he accompanies me whenever he has time, he spends more time at work. At the age of 10, I discovered that my mother had betrayed my father. Mom said to me seriously, "Don't tell your dad! If you do, no one wants you! Do you want to see us divorce?" I was extremely scared and quickly nodded a few times. After that incident, I always couldn't help but confront my mother, and several times, I made her cry with anger. Moreover, I found that my father was still very busy and didn't even notice his mother's secret. I think my father was also quite sad.
After understanding the love between men and women, I can understand my mother, but I cannot establish a good relationship with her. This time she advised me to cherish my marriage, and I deliberately stimulated her: "Take care of yourself first..." She listened, her face turned red and white, and turned back to her hometown.
I think it's unfortunate that I have a bad relationship with my mother and my husband is also leaving me. I also want to live a peaceful and stable life, but why is happiness so difficult?
Oral speaker: Wei Tao, male, 28 years old
I like Fangfang because she is very simple. I can't even imagine that she would repeatedly give me a green hat. Fangfang works in a public institution and is relatively leisurely. And I work in sales and often have to travel. Due to my busy schedule, I always feel that I owe her a lot and feel that not being able to take care of her is my dereliction of duty. So, two years ago, when Fangfang proposed going to the gym, I contacted her at the club without saying a word.
Fangfang cheated at that time. The coach's wife came to my door and even pointed at my nose and cursed, "Mind your bitch!" She even "practiced" with the coach to the bed! I really want to slap myself in the face. What's this called? I asked her to go to the gym, but it was just a matchmaker for her. In the end, the slap fell on Fang Fang's face. That was the first time I hit her and drove her back to her parents' house.
During the few days when Fangfang was away, I was so sad that I went crazy. I repeatedly asked myself, "Do you still love her? Are you not responsible?" After much thought, I would rather believe that it was her loneliness, and it was my negligence that caused her to make mistakes. When Fangfang came crying and begged me, I forgave her.
I changed my job and had more time to spend with her. She is also more gentle and considerate towards me, and sometimes she even washes my feet and massages me. But only three months later, Fangfang had an accident again.
That time, I was attending a colleague's birthday party at a bar and accidentally heard the laughter coming from another private room, which was very similar to Fang Fang. I looked through the half open door and clearly saw Fangfang leaning against the arms of a strange man.
I was blinded at the time and couldn't believe everything in front of me. Because before I left, she warned me to drink less and go home earlier. I didn't expect her to hang out with other men as soon as I left. So, I lied about something and went home early.
I was extremely angry and smoked one by one in the living room. Remembering that for her, I even resigned from a well paid job, but she was not satisfied, it was really too much. At two o'clock in the morning, Fangfang went home. She was full of alcohol and her face was flushed. Seeing that I wasn't sleeping, she was startled and stammered that she was drinking with a classmate she hadn't seen for a long time. Seeing me not speaking, she became even more flustered. She knelt down in front of me with a "plop" and said everything.
I filed for divorce, and Fang Fang's face was covered in tears, hugging me tightly. After a long time, I also calmed down, sighed, and said, "Why bother?" As I said this, my heart was dripping blood, and my smoking hand kept shaking. She cried bitterly and said, 'My favorite person is you! I know I was wrong, give me another chance...' She cried and slapped herself in the face, bleeding from the corners of her mouth.
My heart has softened again. I think as long as we double our kindness to her in the future, there shouldn't be another one.
Indeed, Fangfang has performed better than before. She cooks breakfast for me every morning, and when I come home from work, she also prepares the food. I am grateful for my rationality at the beginning, otherwise I would have regretted it to death.
Unexpectedly, I still regret it. Last month, Fangfang unexpectedly hooked up with netizens again. When she went to take a shower, her phone rang. I took it over and saw that it was actually an ambiguous text message. So I flipped through her previous text messages and found out that she had a room with a man who asked her how she felt, and she shamelessly said she was very comfortable
I completely collapsed. I have repeatedly forgiven her, but she has been pushing even harder. She said she was lonely, and I changed my job to accompany her; She said it was boring, so I bought her a computer. Moreover, I have tried not to work overtime as much as possible. What else should I do?
My heart is completely cold. The next day, I consulted a lawyer about the divorce. When I went out, Fangfang habitually held my hand. Although I finally shook her off, at that moment, my heart ached.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)