Women have soft ears and always like to listen to good words, especially those sweet words spoken by men, which have great killing power for women. Many times, it is clearly agreed to break up, but under the man's bitter plea, the woman is still soft. However, is the credibility of men's words so high? Does a man really love you when he says he likes you and loves you! Does a man really marry you when he says he loves you? There are many ways to distinguish whether a man really loves you. To know whether a man is willing to marry you, you just need to carefully observe whether he has said the following words to you.
"We are fine now"
After falling in love for a period of time, many girls will urge men to get married, but men often answer this question: "Are we not good together now? Why should we change?" This line is often seen in movies and often heard in real life. Many men will use this excuse if they don't want to marry you.
In fact, like other animals, humans are not willing to change their accustomed lifestyle. Look at the colleagues who complain about their work every day but still haven't changed jobs, because they have been used to this lifestyle, and sudden changes can make people unprepared. The same is true for men. They have become accustomed to such relationships in love. There is also room for intimacy. Once married, it means that their private space will be completely occupied. They are afraid of change. If a man often tells you that "we are fine now", it is enough to prove that he doesn't want to marry you, and you don't need to waste so much time on him.
"I like freedom"
For men, marriage represents bondage and imprisonment, so many men enjoy the sweetness of love, but are free from love. "Life is truly valuable, love is more expensive, and if it is freedom, both can be thrown away", which shows how important freedom is for men.
The reason why modern men don't want to get married is that they can go to any place they like freely; You can go to the bar to "fart" at will; Don't be forced to visit relatives and friends. Don't worry about trifles. Men like freedom, which will remain unchanged throughout the ages.
If you are sure that a man loves you, but he doesn't want to marry you, then you should reflect on it. Maybe you control a man everywhere in love and let him have no freedom at all. In this way, men will worry more about their married life
"Marriage is the tomb of love"
"Marriage is the tomb of love". Marriage is like a siege. Those who don't go in want to go in, and those who go in want to come out. Nowadays, the high divorce rate makes many lovers fear marriage. Instead of worrying about married life, it's better not to marry directly! When you are in love, you have the whole forest, and you can continue to choose. There is no reason for a man to give up the whole forest for a woman, unless you have enough charm to convince him. Many arguments against marriage are merely reiterating the same concept: "If you have a choice, you are the boss". Men like three wives and four concubines, but it is an indisputable fact that marriage equals giving up the right to choose. If it were you, the whole street is full of boutiques. Would you like to enter only one of them in your life?
There are three things that can't be trusted in the world: men's commitment, men's feelings, and men's reasons. Men's words, nine out of ten lies, and one should be ignored. You don't want to know which of his words is true. They have saved a set of kung fu that fools women to death. Poor some simple women are always cheated by them. I don't know because women are too easy to cheat! It's still because men's tricks are high!
Recognize the words that men don't want to marry you, and don't waste too much youth on unnecessary men. For women, marriage seems to be a lifelong pursuit and another turning point in life. Many people say that we can't choose our parents or our origin, but we can choose our marriage. Marriage can make many people fly to the branches to become phoenix and live a life without worries. For this reason, many young women's sexual friends are willing to pay their all in the love center, only hoping to return to the man's sentence "Marry me".