A man's life has to go through multiple growth stages, which can be said to be multiple turning points in his life, such as the college entrance examination, marriage, having children, career valleys, and peaks. Therefore, the most stressful moments for people are undoubtedly some major turning points in their work, that is, from peak to valley or from valley to peak. At this time point, men's mental health problems are worth paying attention to, Today, let's talk about the psychological transition period of male mental health.
In the minds of many people, a 44 year old man is at a time of career success and ambition. The United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) pointed out in a report that, based on a large amount of statistical data from countries around the world, men between the ages of 43 and 45 will undergo significant physiological changes. Therefore, 44 years old has been designated as the dividing point between youth and adulthood. The life curve of a person drops from its peak, while the burden curve of work and family rises. The intersection of these two scissor shaped curves is 44 years old, so 44 years old can also be called the axis of the "middle-aged scissors". Due to physiological changes, middle-aged men experience significant changes in their psychology, thinking, and work.
Loneliness fills the heart
A 44 year old man is busy, carrying two heavy burdens of family and career. Due to being stuck in their own world, they rarely have time to communicate with others, and 44 year old men may feel lonely. The competition is unprecedentedly fierce, and the relationships between people are becoming increasingly indifferent, creating a sense of caution towards each other. A successful 44 year old man has a feeling of being too high and too cold; 44 year old men with poor career progress inevitably experience feelings of depression and oppression. My heart is old "is a common lament made by 44 year old men. Most middle-aged people experience inner and mental loneliness. Mr. Liu, 44 years old, is a manager of a large shopping mall. He said he doesn't have any close friends and doesn't want to have too much interaction with his subordinates. "I think to complete my tasks well, I need to maintain a non emotional relationship with others. He felt it inappropriate to reveal his true feelings to another person. In real life, it is not surprising that a 44 year old man does not have a confidant, and many people admit that they do not have a close friend who can be completely trusted and confided in. However, most of them seem to believe that this phenomenon is normal and acceptable. The isolation of the inner world prevents people from establishing true friendship through emotional communication. The lack of friendship leads modern people to a strong sense of loneliness, as some middle-aged people describe their feelings: "In this world, I feel lonely, jealous, angry, and nervous." It is precisely this sense of loneliness and exclusion from others that exacerbates the emotional crisis of middle-aged people.
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