Post Date June, 30 2023
On the wedding night, the groom is eager, the bride is shy, and it is difficult to have a harmonious sexual life. Why is there such a difference? This starts with the differences in sexual physiological structures between men and women. We know that both men and women have sexual desires and need to have sex. However, there are significant differences between men and women regarding the specific needs of sexual activity. The so-called sexual activity is essentially to stimulate the sexually sensitive areas on the surface of one's body to the fullest and most appropriate extent. The sex sensitive areas on the surface of men's bodies are almost all concentrated on the penis, and the Corona of glans penis (below the glans penis) is the most sensitive area on most men, and the younger men, the more so.
Therefore, almost all Almost all can't wait to insert their penises into the bride's vagina as soon as possible, because they all believe that only in this way can their penises be fully and appropriately stimulated. On the contrary, women's sexually sensitive areas are distributed in many parts of the body. Generally speaking, it is necessary to first provide sufficient and appropriate stimulation to sensitive areas elsewhere in order to stimulate her sexual desire, and then she needs to directly stimulate the genitals and vagina.
If taken too hastily, women not only cannot experience the beauty of sexual life, but may also suffer physical and mental damage as a result, making them feel that the groom does not understand what is gentle and what is love, and even leave behind psychological trauma, endangering future marital relationships. What should we do? It is best for the groom to take a hot bath one hour before going to bed, or engage in some strenuous activities (such as moving things, going up and down stairs, etc.).
This may disperse the blood to the whole body instead of concentrating in the penis, helping to temporarily reduce Sexual arousal, leaving a short period of time to fully touch the bride's body. But to be honest, it's not easy for a young, strong, and eager groom to achieve this. Therefore, let's consider the other way around, can the bride help herself and enter her rightful state faster? Obviously, this is easier than forcing the groom not to be so urgent. The wedding activities should be arranged so that the bride has enough time to take a hot shower, listen to soft music, and so on before going to bed. The bridal chamber should also be decorated as romantic and warm as possible.
The bride should go to bed early and quietly savor the infinite beauty of their love. They can also massage their normally sensitive body parts, promote blood circulation, and get excited as soon as possible. If both parties have been in love for a long time, they can also engage in some mutual caressing before the first night, so that the fianc é e can learn to control themselves and be considerate of each other, and the fianc é e can learn to self regulate and enter a state as soon as possible. Both parties can also familiarize themselves with each other's sexual sensitive areas.
