What should be done to educate young girls about early love and sexuality? One article takes you to understand

The benefits of changing early love among teenagers and young girls are becoming increasingly exaggerated in this era. Even teenagers aged 13 or 14 have already experienced early love. Previously, early love was sneaky, but now it has become bright and directly stolen forbidden fruits. Girls get pregnant and have children too early, but because their reproductive organs are not yet fully mature, it causes serious harm to their children's health and their own health.

The best way to face this situation is to shift their early love direction appropriately, guide them correctly not to demand development so early, and effectively prevent them from having no relationship in love. Early love is a mirror of growth. The problem of early love is not isolated, but reflects the issue of parent-child relationship. It is a pressure issue for Chinese children to pursue higher education, and it is a Chinese problem.

Li Xinying, an associate professor of the Institute of Psychology of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, told the Life Times that parents have different attitudes in dealing with puppy love. Some parents welcome each other to play at home when they hear their children's love is clear. Some parents are too afraid of their children's puppy love. Once upon a time, early love was regarded as a minefield by guardians and society, and once signs were discovered, guardians could not help but strangle them. Now it is generously accepted by many parents and welcomed back home. Recently, a survey of 2354 high school students in Shanghai showed that the proportion of falling in love has been increasing year by year. In 2011, the proportion was about one-third, an increase of 12% and 7% compared to the survey data in 2001 and 2007.

Meanwhile, many respondents said that parents usually do not interfere with their early love. In the eyes of many educators, early love is actually a unique term in Chinese education, and they want to define it as adolescent love. The outcome of early love is closely related to the guidance of the guardian, which is good and becomes a beautiful gift in life. When early love triggers tragedy, in today's high school campuses, student couples are referred to as husbands and wives, holding hands and conveying their emotions in class, which is no longer uncommon.

Faced with this openness, the attitudes of Chinese parents have also become more diverse. The survey in Shanghai found that in the eyes of the students interviewed, 52% of the Parent–teacher conference accepted their love, of which 12% chose their parents to accept it, welcome to take it home, and 40% chose their parents to open their eyes and close their eyes. In addition, 48% of students believe that their parents have a critical attitude towards breaking up, but only 20% of high school students ultimately follow their parents' arrangements.