For some women, there are deep worries hidden behind it. They may only feel uncomfortable with a certain aspect of sex, or they may simply have no interest in it, or they may completely avoid sex for the sake of it.
Although major media outlets still suggest that women can have sex twice a night, and most women experience it multiple times, many issues related to sexual disorders are constantly being made public. Many of us used to believe that if our sexual life was not perfect, then we ourselves also had flaws. And now we finally know that most spouses have experienced low levels; Women cannot reach orgasm every time they have sex; Most men have encountered difficulties at some point in their lives.
In sexual life, there are many tricks and tricks, but the simplest and most effective way is to vary from person to person. Why not try assigning some homework to yourself and your partner, requiring them to complete some sensory exercises at the same time, such as sexual play or special sexual positions. Besides enjoying it, the simplest and most effective methods can also be demonstrated in it.
In other letters, it is not difficult to see that no one dares to admit to themselves or have sexual disorders. This almost comical perfection has both personal and cultural reasons. From a personal perspective, we are unwilling to let our friends know about our shortcomings. From a socio-cultural perspective, mass media only promotes the smooth side of sexuality and ignores the failed side.
This type of sexual anxiety is usually unconscious and may stem from childhood experiences. Childhood education may make them fearful, or some sudden and violent events may link sex and fear, but this obstacle is not insurmountable. As you grow up, they may naturally disappear and be replaced by positive behavior. If you understand the causes of obstacles and have a desire to change, then the problem is already half solved. Please try to eliminate negative thinking and replace it with positive thinking; Let your partner teach you new ways to behave; Or overcome your fears through consultation. No matter where fear comes from, we should strive to overcome it and learn to enjoy sexual pleasure.
How to make your woman reach orgasm frequently without bothering to renovate her sexual skills? Here is a brief introduction by Ashtray. If you want to pursue higher quality sexual enjoyment, you can only rely on yourself and your partner to jointly research and explore.
Four steps to improve sexual quality
Step 1: Foreplay is very important. You can have a woman's entire body, but you need to master the sensitive area. Most women's sensitive areas are above. You can start by gently stroking the woman's entire genitals with your hand, remember to gently stroke them, not for too long, and watch the woman's performance. If the woman shows strong performance, you can continue to gently stroke them. If the woman's performance is not strong, you can stop gently stroking them. The next and most crucial step is to gently lick the clitoris with your tongue, Be sure to lubricate the clitoris with saliva, otherwise it will cause pain if it dries. The clitoris is very sensitive, so don't lick too hard, just lightly, and then lick the entire clitoris. At this time, there will be a lot of secretion, and you don't have to worry about the heart. As long as the woman is not seriously ill, you can accept it. At this time, the woman is already acting crazy and she really needs you. However, don't worry, please continue flirting for another minute or two, Take control of yourself.
Step 2: Ride on her in a prone position and gently touch the outside of her genitals with your hand, allowing it to stick to the penis. You can slowly insert it. Don't rush, after inserting, hold her and say some love words in her ear. Then ask her if she wants to twitch a few times, and she says you can take action. Your performance opportunity is also here, please remember not to get too excited, otherwise there will be no further action, and you must control yourself.
Step 3: Lift her up on both sides with her own hand and separate. Kneel down and tell you that posture is important, otherwise women won't enjoy orgasm and don't push too deep. Simply push it in and out, forming a pattern. Don't thrust too hard, it's boring, and women won't like it either.
Step 4: It is also the most crucial step. Through the above shallow thrusts, women will definitely not be satisfied. You can touch the clitoris with your hand while inserting, and remember to use saliva to lubricate your fingers and touch the clitoris.