Men do not want to be 'standardized' in management
Bree likes to keep the house clean and shiny, and is also very strict with his family. She requires her family to have dinner like a meeting, and the tableware should not make any noise. Once, while she was in close contact with her husband, she suddenly realized that a sandwich was about to fall off the table. She quickly pushed her husband away, rushed up to catch the sandwich, and then wiped the table clean. However, the husband was already helpless. When the doctor told her the sad news of her husband's death, her first reaction was to continue cleaning the dishes, dress up properly, cry, and then go out. After Bree lost her husband, the two other boyfriends she found met her "cleanliness standards", but they were both murderers with personality disorders. After suffering a series of blows, Bree became sloppy and manic, and even drank heavily.
Expert analysis: In order to gain recognition from others and suppress her emotions, it is undoubtedly terrifying for Bree to shift negative emotions onto men.
Kind reminder: Women with these typical problems should pay more attention to observing others' families and try living an ordinary life. Thus, it is realized that not all families need to be spotless, and each member should be dressed neatly. In contrast, families that pursue natural harmony are happier.
In addition, it is also important to view issues from the perspective of family members, such as chatting with them more, joking more, and even playing around. Cleanliness is something that many men find difficult to accept, as a normal man will never have excessive demands for cleanliness. Wives should learn to empathize and consider male lifestyle habits more, while avoiding overly demanding demands while maintaining overall cleanliness in the family.
Men believe that their wives' loyalty is greater than heaven
Gaby loves social interaction, but she never gives in or compromises in her family. She longed to be on an equal footing with her wealthy husband, pursuing absolute freedom at home, and would be thrilled to see a handsome man. Therefore, she had an extramarital affair with a college tutor. After being discovered by her husband, she used some small hands to "flatten". Although the husband forgives her mistake, the marital relationship has since buried the root of trouble, and the marital conflict has further escalated. But Gaby brought home one of her husband's male competitors and made her pretend to be her sexual partner. When her husband laughed it off, she would rather pretend it was real. This scene was seen by the husband who was about to bring breakfast into her room in the morning, and the conflict between the two escalated again.
Expert analysis: Many feminists always hope for gender equality and make mistakes when it comes to principles, even trampling on men's rights and dignity. Because these women do not realize that the family is the last domain of men's dignity. In family disputes, women should learn to compromise, show more weakness, and not be self centered. Even in angry situations, they should not choose one night stands or extramarital affairs as the capital of their anger. Because most men can tolerate their wives' tantrums and arguments, but they absolutely cannot tolerate women's physical betrayal. On this issue, there are fundamental differences between men and women, and women can even tolerate one or even multiple physical infidelities with men, but men will not tolerate one such situation for women.
Reminder: Women of this type should not be too selfish or go to extremes in family disputes, especially when competing with their loved ones, as the result of the competition often leads to a dead end in love. Once there is a small friction in the family, the first thing to do is to chat with friends or see how parents usually handle problems, try to divert attention and reduce the desire to take the initiative in controlling family conflicts. Family is a world for two people, and we should cherish it as if it were a treasure passed down from generation to generation.