Sexual Health
What kind of women are more likely to be single? These types of women need to re-examine their relationships
Which type of woman is more likely to be single? Nowadays, there are many elderly single friends, many of whom are struggling with their single status, and getting out of a single has become a concern for many people. So why are female friends so hesitant to take off? Below, the editor will tell you which types of women are more likely to be single, and five types of women should pay attention!
Which type of woman is more likely to be single
1. She is resigned to fate
Behind the reason: What she said is right. She didn't meet the right person. Because she was unwilling to take risks, she had already told herself before going to the battlefield that there was no doubt of losing. She refused to face the potential danger of her relationship. Her rejection of emotions is a cover for her lack of confidence. Moreover, if someone advised her to start a relationship, she would quickly admit, "Anyway, I'm a waste!" What kind of mother does such a self deprecating woman have? Does her mother say more frequently that you can only find a man by losing weight, stopping cutting your hair, being more feminine, and going to social occasions? Or do two-thirds of her words start with 'my poor daughter'? In order to overcome the pain of self belittling, women who are resigned to fate may shift from 'I am a waste' to 'men are all waste'. Ah, this happens to be exactly what my mother often says!
2. As a female warrior, she
Behind the reason: Of course, men are afraid of her because she is strong and confident. No one saw a wounded and crying child in her heart. What kind of childhood trauma did she try to repair as she grew up? What is she resisting? Is it a father, grandfather, brother, boss, or ex boyfriend? Has she ever seen her mother repeatedly humiliated and secretly determined not to repeat the same old path? Because she rejects the hopes and needs of emotional life, she has to make herself more independent and autonomous. She hopes to become the leader of her own life, and she believes that no one can meet her requirements. Someone may say that she looks up to herself. But in reality, she has been hovering between inferiority and arrogance.
3. She is independent
Behind the reason: She is busy with work, fitness, watching exhibitions, listening to concerts, meeting friends, and taking vacations. But she didn't have a minute for herself. Where else is there time for men in her schedule? In fact, she made her life so fulfilling precisely to leave no room for men, so that they could not have a place in her life.
Where does this extreme desire for self-control and fear of losing control come from? It is likely that her parents like to give orders, always judge her actions, always criticize, and always look at her with a critical eye. If she couldn't say 'no' to this scrutiny when she was a little girl, then she wouldn't be able to face men when she grew up. So she chose to close herself without leaving any gaps.