Post Date April, 15 2023
Couples want to stay together for a lifetime, not only in emotional harmony, but also in sexual life. If you judge your future relationship only by intuition, it may last for a while, but it cannot be guaranteed for a lifetime. How can you determine if she is a perfect match for you?
1、 Shape matching type
According to the genetic similarity theory, humans are attracted to a person with similar or similar genes, which is because subconsciously everyone wants to preserve their genes and hope that they continue as pure as possible. At the same time, because people most often see their own faces, they subconsciously feel that people who are similar to their own looks are more approachable, and this feeling of closeness is usually mutual, because both facial features have similar proportions. A new British study shows that those
2、 Psychological compensation type
Family background is important. Children's experiences can affect their expectations of future partners, and relationships with their parents during childhood are also important. The influence of family and young habits can have a subtle impact on people. If you live in a harmonious family, you will want your marriage to be the same as your parents. If the father is prone to domestic violence, the daughter will have a natural fear of marriage. An interesting phenomenon is that people who often get spanked in the butt when they are young are more likely to have sexual excitement when they grow up. The reason is that there is a "short circuit" between pain and sexual excitement in these people's bodies. Pain can cause people to produce a chemical called endorphins, which link pain and pleasure, causing sexual excitement.
It makes sense that many mature men like "girl next door", which is largely due to their similar life backgrounds and growth experiences, going to the same school, receiving the same education, and matching their income, opinions, and even expression styles.
For many people, the greater the difference, the greater the attraction. Some people have to find a complementary partner because they cannot express certain emotions, such as a quiet husband who has found a straightforward wife, or a troubled boy who has a gentle and gentle girl beside him. The starting point of this combination comes from complementarity, especially in terms of sexuality. If two people want to take the initiative, there will never be peace, so there will always be one party who is compliant to satisfy both parties.
3、 Complementary social roles
Which rank do you rank in your family and at what level do you rank? Psychologists have pointed out that there is a close relationship between social roles and family roles, which constantly and imperceptibly affects partner selection.
"If you are an only child, you will understand the loneliness and independence of being an only child, but you two may be too stubborn to give in to each other."; If you are the eldest son, you may be more concerned about each other and have a stronger sense of responsibility. More importantly, you should pay more attention to each other's feelings in sexual life, but be careful not to appear too authoritative and authoritarian. On the one hand, it may make her feel disgusted because she is not used to being controlled. On the other hand, it may cause her to develop a similar "love father" complex.
If you have a high position or a large number of subordinates under management, try the completely opposite approach at home, that is, let her take the lead, and you two will get along well. If, on the other hand, she gives orders for a long time at work, it is possible that she will also find fault finding while taking great care of you. If both parties have no background, they may be very caring, but remember to respect each other. In sexual life, if neither party takes the initiative, they may face embarrassment.
4、 Old wife and young husband type
"When the mind is surplus but the power is insufficient, the sexual thoughts are sometimes physical and sometimes psychological.". Physiological orgasm is active and controlled by androgens. The time a man reaches a physiological orgasm is around the age of 20, when the hormone secretion in the body reaches its peak. Women, as we all know, do not reach this stage until they are in their thirties or forties. Psychological libido is controlled by estrogen and is passively accepted. Men and women reach orgasm at the same age after the age of 50, but at this stage, the level of androgens in men has significantly decreased.
Studies on sexual harmony between older women and young men have shown that women in their 30s and 40s are the most likely to get along well with men. As they age, their sexual life decreases, but when older women combine with younger men, the frequency of sexual life is much higher than the average. On the contrary, when older men are paired with young women, their sexual frequency is also higher than the average for the same age group, because it is at the peak of men's psychological and sexual desire at this time, so they are willing to overcome all difficulties and strive to do so.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
