In real life, many couples can't live together because of work or other reasons, so there is the phenomenon of separation between two places. This phenomenon is common in today's society, and the resulting harm also makes many couples suffer. So specifically, what are the disadvantages of separation between husband and wife?
1. Strangeness will increase
The relationship between husband and wife needs time and energy to maintain. As the two places live apart for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will become weaker and weaker, and the sense of strangeness will continue to grow. Slowly, you will feel that your once closest lover is so far away, and your impression of each other will become weaker and weaker. Even if modern science and technology are developed, and telephone and network communication can meet the communication conditions, it is inevitable to feel tired after a long time. Frequent telephone Congee will slowly become numb, and even produce feelings of resistance, so the relationship between husband and wife will become weaker and weaker.
2. I like to compare my other half with others, and my sense of imbalance is enhanced
As the couple separated from each other for a long time, there were more people around them, and they liked to compare their partners with others. For example, I saw that my colleague had his husband pick up and drop off from work every day, but I was alone; On weekends or holidays, we can only stay at home to play games or sleep in, and then compare with other people's lives... The sense of imbalance increases instantly, which is undoubtedly very detrimental to the maintenance of the relationship between husband and wife.
3. Breed a third party
Couples don't live together all the year round, which will make both sides of the husband and wife unsatisfied both mentally and physically, resulting in a sense of loneliness. In addition, the person who accompanies them every day is not their spouse, but someone else, which greatly increases the probability of having feelings with others. Besides this time, the couple or one of them will feel lonely. If they are lonely for a long time, they will be in danger of cheating. In fact, the probability of cheating is the same for men and women. When lonely, there is a opposite sex who can gently care about themselves. Few people can resist the temptation. We are not eminent monks, so the six roots are not clean. When the temptation comes, can you really control yourself?
4. Embark on the road of divorce
Divorce is the worst and the most serious consequence of the separation between husband and wife, but this consequence cannot be excluded from the list of harms of the separation. If both husband and wife or one of them cheat, if they can't get a reasonable solution, won't they have to face divorce? Between husband and wife, meeting is fate, and there is also the saying that one day husband and wife will be grateful for one hundred days. We must cherish it well. Divorce is the last outcome we want to see, but once it happens, we have to make the most painful choice.
Therefore, it is terrible to live apart from each other, especially for couples who do not have a very deep emotional foundation. As a couple responsible for their family and marriage, they should try their best to create conditions for the couple to live together. What should be abandoned should be abandoned. Nothing is more important than their own happiness. There are many disadvantages in the separation of husband and wife. They should live together and form a perfect family together!