Post Date April, 15 2023
Premarital phobia is not only the preserve of women, but also of many men. They also experience anxiety, confusion, and confusion before marriage. So what is the reason for men's pre marital phobia?
Premarital phobia in men
In fact, in some marriages and relationships, a man's emotions begin to decline from the day he gets married. A man in his twenties is urged to marry by his parents. This is truly a tragedy for men in our social life - their emotions are far from fully developed, their careers and thoughts are not adequately educated, and they have not obtained a relatively reliable economic foothold. Early marriage placed a repressed emotional and financial burden on his head, bound his hands and feet, and plunged him into a lifestyle that only allowed him to survive, destroying his physical and mental health.
From the perspective of men's early psychological state, it seems that their marriage does not have a good foundation enough to enable them to obtain great satisfaction. As a boy, I have been required from an early age to be enterprising, creative, challenging, striving, and exploring. Girls, on the other hand, can derive pleasure and lessons from games such as dolls and family games. Generally speaking, men rarely participate in such activities. Regardless of whether these early psychological differences between the sexes are good or bad, they reflect the actual state of male marital psychology.
To be precise, it is precisely because of these differences in psychological conditions between the sexes that men often feel powerless to play a mature role in marriage. He often works hard to adapt to the situation and reach the peak, but it is far from his early education. I have to change my inherent rhythm of life and force myself to become another person.
"People often hear women complain that they are the oppressed party in marriage, which is obviously not entirely correct.". Undoubtedly, she is also bound by marriage, but men's hearts are more vulnerable to trauma because men are emotionally unprepared for marriage and are more likely to deny and suppress their own personalities. While struggling to maintain that marital relationship, he became increasingly estranged from his true self.
Therefore, male marital phobia should also be understood. If the fianc é e experiences premarital phobia before getting married, don't blame him. You can communicate well with him or persuade him to accept the guidance of a psychologist, so that he can walk out of the shadow of fear and embark on the red carpet of happiness together.
