What is it about having frequent spring dreams? Sexual dreams indicate whether sexual activity is healthy or not

I saw a story about a woman's happy life after getting married in a certain magazine, but why do they dream of having sex with their former lover and sometimes have a passionate relationship with their father. Every time she wakes up to remember her spring dream, she feels embarrassed and ashamed, but cannot tell her husband that she has been depressed and sick for a long time.

This is not an example. Psychologists say that everyone may have sexual dreams, and most adult men do not care. However, teenagers and adult women during adolescence are always shy and panicked, carrying a heavy psychological burden. Actually, this is a normal phenomenon. Dreams are unconscious desires fulfilled, and those with a strong sense of morality force them to suppress the idea of being close to others. The deeper the reality, the greater the rebound in the dream.

1. Face sexual dreams head-on without the need for nervousness and self blame

Psychological experts have encountered many people seeking help from sexual dreams. Adolescent teenagers and girls have the possibility of having sexual dreams. Like boys aged thirteen or fourteen, sometimes dreams are caused by sexual dreams. For example, a 15-year-old boy often dreams of a math teacher tempting him. When the teacher took off his clothes in a dream, he had a dream. Because I think this is an extremely shameful thing, every time I see a math teacher, he becomes so nervous that he can't speak, and his academic performance plummets.

Women are also prone to having sex dreams, especially unmarried women who engage in sexual encounters such as hugging and kissing their fathers. However, due to conservative sexual attitudes and the influence of ethical morality, sex dreams cause great fear and self blame among the family, resulting in a vague and unhappy mood.

In fact, whether it is the former or the latter, you should know that sexual dreams are normal and that you are not a rogue or promiscuous person yourself. Experts say that the tendency of adolescent men and women to have sexual dreams is a response to sexual maturity, which helps alleviate unsatisfied sexual needs and is conducive to normal physical and psychological development. The love between a loving father and a loving mother was born. Women not only enjoy being close to their father, but often use their father as the standard for choosing their spouse. However, they unconsciously feel uneasy and forcefully suppress their desire to be close. Consciously suppressed, forgotten, unconsciously remembered, reflected in dreams that do not require disguise, became a spring dream close to my father.

2. Sexual dreams indicate disharmony in sexual relationships

For Mr. Zhang, who is nearly 40 years old, she often dreams of having an affair with her old lover recently. She is happy in her dreams and feels ashamed after waking up. After a month of this contradictory situation, she finally couldn't bear the torture and sought help from a psychological counselor. After sincere discussions, Mr. Zhang was surprised to find that the reason for his sexual dreams was the disharmony of the couple's sexual life. She was not satisfied with her current sexual life and didn't want to tell her husband, so she had to endure. But the complaint has taken root, and her sexual relationship with her ex lover is very good. Mingli feels immoral and appears in her dream.

Sexual Chunmeng is not necessarily a Chunmeng person. Snakes, insects, bullets, chopsticks, and other cylindrical or strip shaped objects are symbols of sex and male genitalia. However, when sexual dreams appear in this form, it shows that the dreamer represses more deeply, and even direct contact does not dare to express it in dreams, which has become unconscious Sexual repression. Dreamers are usually women, and they are oppressed by Women in China, especially by men when they were young. When they see the reproductive organs and sexual behavior of adults, or men who only see underwear, they will deepen their fear of sex, and become sexually indifferent when they grow up.

3. The desire in the heart needs guidance

If you feel refreshed in bed, you won't shout in life. vulgar words actually explain in some way why many women in life like to complain. Although it may not necessarily refer directly to sexual matters, psychologically speaking, sex is not purely sexual, but rather the performance that makes us feel satisfied and joyful. People in love are happy to smile for each other, but satisfaction brings tolerance.

Psychologists say that simply suppressing sexual needs and desires can actually lead to sexual abnormalities, such as voyeurism, or self abuse, self harm, or harm to others, which can also affect sexual relationships. It's better to speak up than to hold it in your heart. A young man who dreamed of a math teacher, his heart beat faster when he came to discuss, and he could smile calmly when he returned. However, not everyone has such determination, so keeping a diary is also a way to guide and relax.