"I want to divorce." "This day can't live any longer." These words seem to be the most common words when every couple quarrels. So over time, no one takes these words as anything anymore. They always feel that they are just angry words said by each other. Until the marriage is really due to the end of the quarrel, and the words are fulfilled, they can't be repented.
In fact, there are quarrels in the family. It's too common. But don't take quarrels seriously. It's nothing to argue for a few words. You should know that many divorced couples are quarreling with each other. In fact, many of them are talking unscrupulously when they are angry. They never thought that the angry words will become the fuse of divorce. And what the other half said during the quarrel was only regarded as angry words, and didn't take it to heart at all. But I didn't think that maybe your neglect was the reason for her divorce. This is especially true for men. Because men are generally careless and don't want women to be sensitive, so maybe when the other party put the divorce agreement in front of you, you will not understand the reason, I don't know what I did wrong to give her the reason for divorce.
In fact, there are many reasons for the wife to divorce. Sometimes, many of your surprised eyes can fall out. So what are the reasons for the wife to divorce today?
First, the character is not harmonious.
This reason is very common, and it is also a reason for rational people to prevaricate others and leave the last bit of dignity for each other.
Second: I can't stand your temper.
In fact, there are really elements of personality incompatibility, such as you are too overbearing, too cold, too irascible, too weak, too lazy, etc. In a word, you can ask the other party to give a hundred examples of your temper that makes him unbearable, but to put it bluntly, it is your character, but it is the opposite of her, not her acceptable character.
Third: No self-motivation.
In fact, it's not good to say that your career is not successful enough, maybe not as good as she imagined.
Fourth: I don't understand sentiment, which is not romantic enough.
Her girlish mentality has remained for too long, but you can't understand it. You are absorbed in the work and ignore her. In those days that she remembers in detail, maybe in the important days she thinks, you didn't accompany her, or you didn't go home in time to accompany her to dinner, send a gift, give a surprise or something.
Fifth: I ignored her and ignored her at ordinary times.
For other people (including your parents and relatives, and perhaps others, friends, etc.) and things that she can't compare with you, the things are hobbies and work. In short, you spend too little time with her and concentrate on your other things when you have time. There is no time and no time to pay attention to her. Another kind of thing may be that you are biased towards your own parents, but ignore her parents, which is also easy to cause her sadness.
Sixth: Your meanness.
Women all like beauty. They see beautiful clothes, or accessories that make her excited, and they also need all kinds of cosmetics. In short, in your opinion, they are too expensive, but for her, it is a common thing, but they can't get your permission.
In addition to those, there are also, for example, your suspicions about her, and most importantly, her suspicions about you, for fear of having an affair with you, which is only one of the ten thousand reasons why women want to divorce. Apart from these, there are many other reasons according to personal circumstances, and we won't give examples one by one.