Post Date April, 15 2023
What are the hidden rules that men and women can't escape from?
Through in-depth analysis, it is found that there are five kinds of performance differences between men and women when they cheat. These characteristics and rules seem to have become hidden rules, indicating that any improper relationship between men and women cannot be free. Therefore, men and women should prejudge the possible consequences before derailment, so as not to fall into the quagmire.
1. Most men cheat for sex, and most women cheat for love.
It is the nature of men to pursue adventure stimulation. Most men cheat just to seek sensory stimulation. Even if they finally fall in love with a third person, it is also after the physical cheating. But if they want to correct their beloved little lover, they need to go through the original match. It is difficult for unmarried women to marry the cheating man. On the contrary, women cheat because they are dissatisfied with the marriage status quo and want to find new emotional support through extramarital affairs. Only after falling in love with an extramarital man can they transition to sex, and then they will follow the man. If unmarried men do not want to marry the cheating woman, it is better not to ask for trouble.
2. Most men cheat on girls, and most women cheat on old men.
Men who cheat usually take unmarried girls as the target, and just fall in love with those young and beautiful girls who love vanity, want to enjoy, and want to get something for nothing. On the contrary, most of the derailed women are no longer young and can't compete with the unmarried girls. They have to choose the rich old man as the object of the derailment. It is the best to get divorced and then marry without worrying about food and clothing. If they don't get married, they can also get some material benefits, which is not at any loss. This hidden rule reflects that there is no free lunch for a man to cheat, and that a woman to cheat takes a lot of risks, either losing money or losing money.
3. It costs money for a man to cheat, but it can earn money for a woman to cheat.
The essence of a man's cheating is to spend money to buy incentives. If it is not for power and sex trading and mutual use, the cost of keeping a woman is huge. Without "diamond", "porcelain work" cannot be done. On the contrary, women who cheat don't need to spend money. They can earn some money when they meet a generous lover. In addition to the gifts they send every three to five times, generous people will also pay a compensation fee. Even if they get cars and houses, they should make a steady profit in material interests. According to this hidden rule, it is a trivial matter for a man to lose money, but money can't buy the marriage and reputation loss of a woman who is cheating.
4. Men can turn back when they cheat, but women can't turn back when they cheat.
Most men cheat not for the purpose of changing wives, but for the effect of keeping the red flag at home and flying the red flag outside. They don't want to destroy their marriage and family because of extramarital affairs. In addition, it is easier for men to get the wife's forgiveness for cheating. Once the cheating scandal is exposed, they usually leave the lover to go home, leaving a third party to weep secretly. On the contrary, women are emotional animals. They usually devote themselves to falling in love with men and even deliberately create friction with their husbands to achieve the purpose of divorce and remarriage. In addition, husbands do not like to wear green hats, so there is no room for manoeuvre after cheating. In real life, some married men and women always hope to meet with each other, so as to add some excitement to the dull marriage life. But marriage is a big thing after all. In the vast sea of people, it is a kind of fate for men and women to be married. If they are together, they should cherish it. Marriage is not like wearing clothes. You can throw away old clothes and change another one when you are tired of them. The important thing between husband and wife is trust and loyalty. Married men and women, regardless of their reasons for cheating, can't help but live a life of fear. If they can't, they may go their separate ways. Neither outcome is our life. Therefore, men and women are advised not to solve problems by cheating after they have feelings problems. The best way is to improve the ability to manage marriage and manage marriage well. Find your own happiness.
