If you want to be a charming and good man, you need to have the ability to transform from past to present, and be both a rogue and a gentleman. The best way is to show good through bad, and to show good through bad; Bad in form, good in substance; Wild on the outside, gentle on the inside.
1、 New Viewpoint: Half a Good Man, Half a Gentleman, Half a Rogue
1. Most women like men like this:
With the warmth and protection of a father, as well as the capriciousness and mischief of a son; On the surface, it may seem a bit bad, but in essence, it is "pseudo bad".
The most charming men always seem to be both righteous and evil. Some people even extreme believe that when the prodigal son turns around, he is the prodigal son "graduating" - he has a bad shadow, but now he is a good physical body. When it comes to 'courage in the past', it can be used to recall, and when it's good, it can be used to live in the present.
2. The combination of 'bad man' and 'good father'
I once saw a man holding his son in line at the hospital for injections. This man is sturdy, with a thick silver ornament hanging around his neck, and a blue dragon tattoo on his dark arm. Obviously hooligans, obviously thugs of the underworld. But when he stood in line, he would tell his younger son stories with a gentle expression on his face. This kind of interior and exterior are completely different! His wildness carries a kind of fatherly radiance, which is why he is beloved.
The wonderful combination of "bad man" and "good father" makes that man suddenly rich and attractive.
2、 General rules for charming men:
1. Rapid transformation from "hooligans" to gentlemen
The most intimate suggestion is: bad in the first half of the night, good in the second half of the night, aggressive and domineering in the foreplay, gentle and gentle afterwards. The most practical advice is: if it's bad on the road, it's not easy to be targeted by pickpockets and other bad people. If you go home and hug your wife, it's painful and sweet to the bone.
2. The best way for a good man
Men should not be so good as to have no personality or sharpness, picking up children at work and cooking after work; But it should not be so bad that the six relatives do not recognize it and the seven holes bleed. Be careful not to let your ancestors' graves be cursed and cracked! The best method is to show good through bad, and to show good through bad; Bad in form, good in substance; Wild on the outside, gentle on the inside.
3. Specifically, in terms of clothing and attire
You can wear a suit without buttons, rain without an umbrella, as long as you don't catch a cold and your stomach won't catch a cold; Naked upper body, tied with a tie, although without a collar, as long as you and I feel 'good', it highlights' demeanor '. If you are a whitefaced scholar, then grow some beard to avoid too creamy a taste; If you have a rough appearance, then don't blow your beard and stare to avoid scaring away people around you. Use a gentle tone, which may save you from danger
4. Don't go to the extreme, it may seem like praising the mean, but it's actually not.
The Doctrine of the Mean lacks vitality and charm, and both righteousness and evil itself create edges and corners. However, it is still important to grasp the heat, not to let you rob, nor to let you simply "act cool", naturally reveal, and have a strong heart in your bones. With a loving, gentle and generous heart, you can bend, stretch, and stand tall and upright, as long as you are like a man!
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)