Post Date June, 27 2023
It is said that marriage is the tomb of love. Many people outside the city wall try to get in, while those inside the city wall try to get out. If two people do not master the skills to get along in marriage, even the best relationship will be diluted. Especially for marriages with these four situations, even without arguments, they will eventually come to an end. Therefore, it is important to understand these situations and take measures to make the marriage happy.
What are the four situations in marriage that will eventually come to an end?
1、 Too domineering and powerful
Some men or women may use the name of loving each other to force them to obey themselves and exploit their freedom and rights. Regardless of gender, in marriage, two people are equal. Don't think that giving love to each other requires giving the other something to repay. If one exploits the freedom of the other party and feels constrained and controlled in marriage, it will only suffocate others, and any amount of love and care will become a burden. Love is not kidnapping, don't control the other person in the name of love, it's just selfish behavior.
2、 Always nitpicking on the other party
No matter how well the other party does, you are always picky, but you are also extremely uneasy when you don't know that you are picking on the other party. There is no perfect person in the world. Couples need to communicate with each other more and give each other sufficient care and support. It is not through marriage that the other party is told of their shortcomings. A truly good marriage is when two people tolerate each other. Even if the other party has flaws, they will accept them with a smile, after all, everyone has imperfections and small flaws, and these are unique parts of each person.
3、 Always unwilling to step back
If one side gives in and apologizes or neither side is willing to step back after a quarrel or conflict. Although knowing regret, one of the main reasons for the breakdown of marriage is unwillingness to give each other a step and not accept it. Marriage is mutual tolerance. When there are conflicts and arguments between each other, after calming down, we can communicate with each other and accept each other. Give the other party a hug and a step, in order to warm up the relationship and further communicate.
4、 Always dissatisfied with the other party
The happiness of marriage does not lie in abundance, but in satisfaction. The so-called satisfaction refers to a person's rating criteria for their marital life. If you are too demanding, you will always feel dissatisfied, no matter how much the other party does to make you happy. You may also feel that you are not meeting the desired requirements, and this behavior can make you feel tired and unable to receive a compliment from your partner after meticulously doing something. Over time, it will make them less motivated and also weaken their emotions towards each other.
