Post Date September, 03 2023
Of course, sleeping together on the first night is of great significance for newlyweds. Not everyone can have sex smoothly on this night, but there are also many people who get pregnant for the first time. If you don't want to have a child immediately after marriage, there are many contraceptive methods you can choose from, but specifically, which contraceptive method is the best or which contraceptive method must be used is very difficult. Therefore, choosing a contraceptive method on the first night can be a bit challenging.
If condoms are used, it seems to disrupt the romantic atmosphere on the first night of the wedding, and is it the groom or the bride preparing? I believe that even if the groom's interest is better, seeing the bride take out a condom will still make him feel bored. Contraceptive pills can also disrupt both parties' emotions.
The most ideal method of contraception on the first night is to avoid ovulation day. So, for women who have been engaged, it is best to measure their basal body temperature. At this point, they can use their basal body temperature to pre determine the date of marriage to avoid ovulation. However, many people decided to get married six months to a year ago, and predicting ovulation dates from a year ago is not easy.
But if menstruation is always regular, it can be predicted that the day of menstruation will be at the beginning, middle, or end of the month. The ovulation day is around 14 days before the next menstrual cycle, so simply calculate it in reverse and you can choose a good day at the beginning, middle, or end of the month. However, even women with regular menstrual cycles cannot achieve 100% accuracy in determining a first night after six months or even a year based on their basal body temperature. Moreover, many places (especially rural areas) still follow the old habit of using the lunar calendar to determine the date of marriage, which makes it even more difficult to use natural contraception.
If this is the case, it should be decided after the wedding date. Start recording basal body temperature one and a half months before this day, so as to roughly predict when the wedding day will be during ovulation. If the wedding day or honeymoon period happens to be one week before the scheduled onset of menstruation, which is 4-5 days after the basal body temperature has entered the high temperature period, you don't need to worry about getting pregnant and can enjoy your honeymoon with peace of mind.
If the first night of marriage is during the ovulation period (5 days before and after the day when the basal body temperature is low) or when the basal body temperature has entered a low-temperature period, there is a possibility of pregnancy. So, during your honeymoon, if you don't want to have children early, you should find ways to use contraception. I don't want to recommend contraceptive methods such as using condoms and uterine rings to everyone now. Because if you are not familiar with its usage, you are likely to fail. In addition, if you take out these things during your wedding, you will feel a bad appetite.
