1、 Self proclaimed cleverness;
Being smart is not necessarily a good thing for women, but being smart is even more of a top enemy for women. A woman who loves to be smart and always doesn't listen to others' opinions, always likes to pry into a man's inner world with her own opinions, always thinking that she can lead a man by the nose, and likes to play tricks with people no matter big or small things... However, the inherent fragility and emotional thinking patterns in her heart always easily put women in a dilemma. Until one day, they truly understood that the truth of many things was not what they had anticipated in advance, and men never paid attention to that little thing... So they became impatient, fearful, and insecure.
2、 Placing too much emphasis on career;
In today's society, the demand for women's contributions and the traditional positioning of her online presence are extremely inappropriate. This situation can easily cause career oriented women to lose many elements of happiness. According to the sky always blue, a woman with a strong sense of career always finds it difficult to concentrate on taking care of her marriage and family. She lacks the energy to dress up more, communicate more with her husband and children, and has endless classes every day. There are always too many obstacles in her work that remind her to be strong, until one day she transforms from a true professional woman, who is principled, has clear goals, and is meticulous in speaking and laughing, Even indifference... and these are precisely the natural enemies of women's marital happiness.
3、 Too strong in the heart;
Inner strength may be a good compliment in a large objective context, but if it is used by women in marriage emotions, it may become an insurmountable sadness. The reason why the sky is always blue is because the essence of marriage and emotions has mutual needs and demands for mutual help. However, from the traditional perspective of the internet, this kind of help is often given by men, and women need to understand how to show weakness in order to stimulate men's secretion of male hormones. This is why most men like to be gentle and gentle with women.
Men are most afraid of women's unwavering determination in everything, and they can bear everything you say and do alone. If you don't go home for three days or talk to her for four days, she won't show that kind of worry and doubt... This kind of behavior can easily drive men crazy, and even miss out on many opportunities for women to save marriage and happiness.
4、 Poor self-control and low emotional intelligence;
Women are all innate emotional animals, and a woman with low emotional intelligence not only easily becomes marginalized by other women, but also makes men feel that she is dull and tasteless.
Especially, women with low emotional intelligence often lack great self-control. When encountering unpleasant and sad things, they always find it difficult to manage their emotions. In a state of loneliness, loneliness, and loss, they are extremely easy to do things that lack both rational guidance and emotional charm.
According to the observation that the sky is always blue, this type of woman is more likely than other women to believe men's lies, cheat more easily after marriage, and change the direction and object of emotions more easily. Their understanding and familiarity with emotions are also particularly easy to stay at the level of sweet words and superficial familiarity.
5、 Excessive perfectionism.
There can never be a perfect thing in this world. However, women's innate sensitivity and delicacy can easily find and magnify many imperfections in marriage, which forms a spiritual barrier that perfectionism women cannot overcome.
Their emotional demands are supreme and pure, and they do not allow men to make any mistakes, even the hands that have once held other women are dirty in her eyes.
All aspects of their lives become heavy and tense due to the pursuit of perfection. As the sky is always blue once said, perfection, pickiness and narrowness are only one step away. When a woman is picky and narrow-minded under the banner of perfectionism, marriage is particularly easy to get bogged down in the mud.