The newlywed honeymoon is a special period in life. Young men and women who love each other join hands in entering the marriage palace to taste the sweetness and joy of the newlywed together. In this happy moment, it is also important not to forget the newlywed health care. On the contrary, we should learn more about physical hygiene, enhance our awareness and ability of self health care, cultivate good hygiene habits, face new changes in life, and make our married life more harmonious and happy.
Maintain a good mindset to avoid mental illness
Eliminate pre marital tension. Busy preparations for marriage before marriage leave both men and women physically and mentally exhausted. When two parties disagree, it is easy to argue, feel the beauty of being in love, feel like the other person has changed, and some people even have doubts about their future marriage life. At this time, both men and women need to understand and trust each other, speak well when there is something to say, and negotiate slowly when there is something to do.
The wedding night is also a psychological test for men and women. Some people attach great importance to a woman's hymen. If they find that her hymen has ruptured, they believe that her partner has had sex, leaving a psychological shadow that can affect future sexual relationships and even marital life. In response to this phenomenon, Director Fang said that according to regulations, doctors do not describe the hymen during the premarital examination. Some young girls are born with a tough or thick hymen, while others have no hymen. Others suffer injuries during exercise, resulting in hymen rupture.
Both men and women should understand some anatomical knowledge of life and correctly view the issue of the hymen.
Some men value the success of their first night, while others feel that the sexual pleasure in sexual life is different from what they imagine. If the first night fails, it will affect future sexual life, and even cause sexual dysfunction. The psychological state of women is more complex, with tension, fear, and shyness, often being passive. Men should refrain from themselves, provide caress and comfort to women, and help them eliminate their shyness. If men only focus on meeting their physical needs while ignoring women's psychological needs, it often causes women to dislike and fear sexual life. Director Fang believes that sexual life is a matter for both spouses and should be coordinated with each other. "The woman should not be completely passive, eliminate tension, and maintain muscle relaxation in order to alleviate and avoid pain and discomfort caused by hymen damage.".
Do a Good Job in Contraception to Reduce Physical Injury
Director Fang said in an interview with reporters that the pregnancy rate among newly married people is as high as 85%, while the abortion rate is 67%. Director Fang reminded newly married couples to take contraception measures. Both men and women are relatively tired at the time of their new marriage, and there are more opportunities for exposure to tobacco and alcohol. If pregnant, it often affects the health of pregnant women and the development of the fetus. Therefore, it is necessary to avoid "sitting happily" and not take chances.
Women should establish a menstrual card and record it on the first day of their menstrual cycle. Women typically have periods every 28 or 30 days. In the case of stable menstruation, the first 14 to 16 days of the next menstrual period is the ovulation period. If you do not want a child, you must avoid these days of sexual life.
At the newly married stage, both men and women are still not cooperating well in sexual life. Director Fang recommends that men not wear condoms, while women take oral contraceptives to achieve contraceptive purposes. Generally, short-term oral contraceptives can become pregnant after one month of withdrawal, while long-term oral contraceptives can become pregnant after six months of withdrawal. If you want to have children, you should also wait until 3-6 months after marriage before becoming pregnant.
Finally, Director Fang also talked about the health care of some special groups during the new marriage period. He said that since the Haidian District Maternal and Child Health Care Hospital started the premarital examination work, they have received 20000 people in nine years, with a disease detection rate of 7%. A significant proportion of these 7% of the population are those who have deferred marriage. Some people also have misconceptions about premarital examination work, always believing that they are in good health and do not need to be examined. Some people are afraid of being checked out during the premarital check-up because they have their own illnesses and are not allowed to get married. Director Fang said that the premarital examination work includes three aspects: premarital health guidance, premarital health consultation, and premarital medical examination. The premarital examination is actually to check reproductive health and impart sexual health knowledge to people preparing to marry. Hepatitis B virus carriers do not belong to the category of diseases prohibited from marriage. As long as hepatitis B virus carriers do not do catering work, do not donate blood, do not donate organs, and regularly monitor the transaminase index. The positive rate of Australian antibody in the normal population is about 10%, and infection is not excluded. As long as the transaminase index is not high, it is not considered a disease. Hepatitis B virus carriers can do the five tests of hepatitis B in order to understand whether hepatitis B virus has replicated in the body.
In addition, patients with heart disease must exercise moderation.
Pay attention to physical hygiene to prevent the occurrence of diseases
Develop good hygiene habits. Both men and women should clean frequently, especially before and after sharing a room. Women should frequently change their underwear. Some women believe that wearing a pad instead of frequently changing their underwear is incorrect. Doctors also do not advocate wearing a pad, which can cause local temperature and humidity to increase, and can easily breed bacteria. Use warm boiled water when washing. Various lotions can damage the physiological environment of women, and should not be advocated, let alone washed with soap. Frequent washing with soap or alkaline liquid medicine changes the acidic environment in which the vulva has a self-cleaning effect, which can easily lead to bacterial invasion and urinary tract infection. Women should develop the habit of urinating after each sexual activity, flushing out the bacteria from the urethra, and reducing the incidence of honeymoon disease. It is important to note that you should not cohabit during the menstrual period to avoid excessive menstrual blood or pelvic inflammation after pelvic congestion.
Director Fang said that men should pay more attention to personal hygiene. "If a man's foreskin is too long or has phimosis, it can affect normal married life, especially if a man's foreskin is a hiding place for dirt. If not cleaned, it can bring bacteria to women, causing diseases such as urethritis, vaginitis, and cystitis.". The continuous accumulation of secretions in the foreskin can lead to penis inflammation. Prolonged stimulation of the foreskin can induce penis cancer, and foreskin scaling can also induce lesions in the female reproductive tract. In addition, severe varicocele in men can cause local congestion, cause an increase in temperature within the scrotum, and affect spermatogenic function. It is one of the reasons for male infertility, but after surgical treatment, it will not affect fertility.