Post Date April, 15 2023
I have watched some success studies lectures, and every time I watch them, I feel excited and feel that there are many things that need to be taken immediately.
The next day, I woke up the same old way and even comforted myself by saying, 'Wait a little longer before getting up, enjoying life now is the king's way.'. So he defeated those flames with excuses such as pleasure and being better to himself. I slept until noon, feeling comfortable and comfortable, and rightfully remembered the story of the fisherman and wealthy businessman basking in the sun on the beach.
Yeah, so why work hard? Aren't you also sunbathing on the beach? Am I also sunbathing on the beach?
It sounds reasonable, but the truth doesn't seem to be the same. If a fisherman wants to have the next meal after eating, it would be better if his life is calm and peaceful. If there are any unexpected circumstances, or if he needs to support his son, wife, parents, and family, he will have to live a very difficult life. Because there is an extra responsibility, I want to give more to those I love.
So, are you going to stand up and work hard to make money to succeed? Is it still living in the present and being indifferent and indifferent?
If you choose comfort, some people will question and say that unsuccessful people will find excuses to comfort themselves and live a light life. This is cowardly behavior, you deserve to be poor for a lifetime! You deserve it, you can't stand out! You deserve it, you can't succeed!
Upon hearing this, I feel a bit ashamed. Indeed, is it because one is too lazy to achieve success in a mediocre life? Is it really incompetent, or is it simply not putting in effort?
But it's not easy to truly succeed. If you have talent, work hard, work hard, go crazy, or resort to any means, you may have it. As a result, will success lead to happiness? Did you have a great time? It's hard to say again.
In the movie 'Burst Drummer', there is a very crazy mentor named Fletcher. A horn player trained by him became famous, but soon after, due to excessive stress, he developed depression and ultimately committed suicide.
In "She's Lonely than Fireworks," the female protagonist successfully played the cello, attracting attention but feeling meaningless. She twisted her mind and searched for love everywhere. What kind of psychological torment have successful individuals who we don't know about?
If there is all pain behind it, then what is the significance of success or not?
Just want people to remember? But I only remember for a while, and after a while, there will naturally be other successful people replacing you. Just like the death of singer Yao Beina, people are all regretful, but soon other news covered the topic of her, such as Fan Weiqi giving birth to twins, Jay Chou getting married
There are too many successful people, too many talented people, and too many people who can leave behind art or other useful products for people. You are still just one of them, even if there is light, it is only temporary.
Success has become popular, there is a sense of existence, and there are relatively new troubles and pressures. It is also difficult to say how many hardships, choices, tears, or blood and sweat have gone through that successful process. If you can withstand it, you will shine brightly for a while. If you can't make it through, you may never recover from it.
Burst drummer Andrew, tormented by his mentor's devil training method, almost went crazy. If his psychology is not strong enough, he will also experience mental and psychological problems. Being insulted, humiliated, beaten, and subjected to various forms of torture. Can you bear to scold you for being an idiot and looking down upon in front of everyone? Can't you stand making a fool of yourself and disdaining you on the spot?
How much external and internal pressure that ordinary people cannot withstand, and how much physical torment and hardship you must endure, can you unleash your maximum energy. It is the courage to move forward and be inspired to surpass oneself. Whether you are discouraged or lose your fighting spirit due to being suppressed, or if you have physical and mental problems directly, it depends on your own comprehensive qualities such as endurance and mentality.
In short, we cannot judge whether it is right or wrong to pursue success recklessly and perversely, nor can we say that being plain and indifferent is like living a life of laziness. These all depend on the choices of the parties involved, what you need, how much you need, how much you desire, and how firm you are. You face it yourself and advocate. Then the result is success or failure, and one must be able to bear it.
