Nowadays, many men and women of the post-80s generation have entered the marriage palace, because most of them are the only children of the family, and are accustomed to being egocentrism. Therefore, in the marriage life, there will inevitably be some minor frictions between the husband and wife. How should couples born in the 1980s get along?
We need to discuss more economically
When couples get married and live together, they must learn how to manage their finances and negotiate more financially. Especially for women, don't treat the money in your husband's pocket as your own money. After spending it all, ask him for it, but if he doesn't give it, the two of them may have conflicts. So, for couples born in the 1980s, they can adopt the AA system in terms of finances, or hand over their money to someone who knows how to manage it. Only in this way can couples avoid financial conflicts and maintain a harmonious family atmosphere.
Learn to switch roles
Couples born in the 1980s have lived a life of dressing and eating since childhood, but have been pampered by their parents. Once they start a family and start a business, it is easy to be self-centered. Once married, it is easy for couples to erupt into "war". At this point, couples need to learn to switch roles, think from the other party's perspective, learn tolerance and understanding, in order to deepen their relationship.
Don't nag and complain
At any time, women seem to speak more than men. In work, I was wronged by my boss and went home to nag my husband endlessly. Then, I waited for his comfort, and after he comforted me, I kept complaining. The result "angered" my husband, making him feel very annoyed and affecting the relationship between husband and wife. So, it's best for women not to constantly nag and spend more time on self reflection.
Learn to be diligent, frugal, and thrifty
People born in the 1980s were loved and used to by their parents when they were young, spending money recklessly, especially women. After working, they make money on their own and spend money like water. After marriage, the living burden of the two increases, so it is necessary to learn to be frugal. Of course, it is not to return to the "pre liberation" period, but to appropriately save a portion of the money on your salary card. This way, you can live a comfortable life and avoid conflicts between husband and wife.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)