The so-called love means that love is talked about by mouth. If two people do not communicate with each other completely, the relationship will not start. At the same time, men's self-esteem is particularly strong. In the movie "My Adolescence", if a boy admires a girl, he may choose active attack or side defense. Although Xu Taiyu is full of ruffians on the outside, his heart is tender like water. His cold appearance hides a burning heart, which is only released for his favorite heroine Lin Cheng. In the eyes of women, the man who is truly worthy of love is not the best warm man who takes care of the whole world, but the overbearing president man who only loves himself and is gentle and special.
People in love always lose their opinions and discretion because they care too much about each other. Even when Lin really says to Xu Taiyu, "I will never talk to you again!" Xu Taiyu's heart has collapsed. In fact, some of the so-called cruel words of women are just the angry words of the moment, and men just listen to them. It's like when a woman says to a man, "How disgusting!" In fact, it doesn't mean that a woman really thinks how disgusting the man is. On the contrary, she thinks that the man is so bad that it's too late to love. Therefore, men should learn to understand women's words. Of course, women should also pay attention to the moderation and manner of speaking. The following three harsh words should not be said to men at will, because these three harsh words are likely to completely hurt men's self-esteem.
1、 You are such a loser.
When a woman scolds a man as a coward, it shows that a man has deeply broken a woman's heart. Not every relationship will have a good memory, and there will inevitably be some tearful moments in those past fragments. What you need to do is to love bravely and pursue to embrace the most beautiful rainbow. When the air is filled with lovesickness and love, you can truly embrace life and the beauty of life. The best time of love is when the person you love has your most sincere and beautiful energy. When love is full of the most exciting power, all stories will become no longer black and white. Men can't tolerate women calling themselves a loser, which is equivalent to completely denying the value of men's existence.
2、 I was blind to see you at first.
If a woman says to a man, "I was blind to see you at the beginning "Men's psychological shadow area is certainly not small. In fact, when a woman thinks that she is blind and loves the wrong person, it is not only a damage to the man's self-esteem, but also a negation of her own aesthetic values. For a woman, if you said that you were blind when you first saw or fell in love with this man, then it means that you always have a bad eye for people. In fact, there is no logic in emotional matters, only follow the inner section Play to adapt and change slowly. There are many blind people in love. Sometimes love itself is a blind cat running into a dead mouse. Women should never put this sentence on their lips, which is a huge blow and devastation to men's self-esteem.
3、 Why don't you die.
Sometimes when women are extremely angry, they will blurt out and scold men: "Why don't you die! "Or:" Why don't you get away from me? How far away! "When a person's feelings go to the end, it is often the arrival of another life spring. Any contradiction and problem in the relationship can be solved through communication. Problems that cannot be solved can be solved and relieved through peaceful separation. Bad words can only brew huge disasters. In emotion, the necessary reason is the last barrier to maintain the lasting development of a relationship. When emotions are swallowed by anger, please keep the necessary calm first, and think twice before acting.