Women's love of money and power has become public knowledge, but only real bad boys know the secret: money and power are only fireworks, and sexual chemistry is the spark that ignites the firewood. The task of the bad boy is to cultivate these subtle sparks and turn them into a burning flame in a specific time.
Not every attractive goal will feel the spark, so you need to exert a little creativity. Maybe your past experience of conquest will give you a lot of security and confidence, but even a good hand can't guarantee that every chemical reaction will start normally. At this time, what we need to do immediately is to roll up the sleeves and create tension.
Understand what sex chemistry is
Let's first get familiar with the definition of sexual chemistry, which refers to "a natural mutual attraction formed by the integration of the sense of harmony and physical attraction of both sides." Of course, this description is too obscure, so we can simplify it to a more understandable one: you need to do some actions according to her personality to pull things to physical attraction - even if her "feeling" has not yet arrived.
You may want to get results as soon as possible, so let's see what needs to be done in one night.
Looking for similar Beijing
Similar backgrounds are the basis of sexual chemistry. If you have similar emotional or intellectual backgrounds, it's a good start - at least you won't lack topics. Therefore, focus on multiple levels of similar background. The more similar the background is, the easier it is for you to establish a sense of connection with her, and the easier it is for her to remember you.
Find a similar background, which means that you need to listen and pay enough attention to her words in the conversation. Take the same stand with her on some topics, but don't be a "good" man. Agree with her and use your uniqueness to stimulate the spark. Consistent agreement will make her feel bored. Having your own point of view will open sexual chemistry.
Show that you understand women
If you want to show her that you always think for women, understand women's feelings, and understand women's thoughts, then you are completely wasting your time. She knows that you won't be on the side of women. However, you can use your politeness to show that you will tolerate women - you need to open your heart and try your best to communicate and listen to women. This will remind her that she is dealing with a man, and her sullen interest will rise accordingly.
Show that you understand her
She will always talk and you will always listen - at least you should listen. She will reveal a lot of information while speaking. You should ask her reaction and agree with her opinion (don't fake your own opinion). Your acquiescence is a kind of understanding. Understanding will move her and make her burn. It will make her wonder who you are and why you can understand her while others can't.
Maintain mysterious character
Too much understanding will make sexual chemistry difficult to react. Only yearning for what we don't have will arouse our desire. But that doesn't mean you need to be abstinent or mean with your answer. What you need to do is to talk less and listen more, and don't talk more about people or things that have nothing to do with yourself.
Before the end of the date, she should feel that her knowledge of you is limited, so that chemistry will be available. In addition, be sure to be shy and coy in the process of hooking up, and let her think that you are a lonely and impatient person who can't make you happy. This is undoubtedly pouring cold water on her. Therefore, we should keep away from behaviors like scanning others and staring at others. These actions are really scary. Pay attention to these details and keep the topic away from sex. If the girl likes this man, they will actively throw out clues and come close to you.
Keep a positive attitude
Apart from negativity, there are few things that can dampen sexual chemistry, desire and attraction. In other words, what can dry up excitement and interest is only anger, complaint and other negative emotions. Maybe your politeness and mystery make her curious, but if you want her to tolerate your bad attitude at the same time, she will definitely take the initiative to quit.
Juliet Binoche said: "Attraction is not controlled by our will." Yes, we can't control attraction, but we can work hard on sexual chemistry. So, stop worrying about whether the bad boy is right or wrong, and start collecting test tubes and alcohol lamps to mix your own sexual chemistry.