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Girlfriend:
Am I fat
Do you love me
Do my clothes look good
What do you really like about me
Boy: Sleeping slot, I won't answer that
Actually, for this kind of problem
What a girl really wants is not your answer
It's about your attitude as a boyfriend
Like Sheldon in the Big Bang of Life
Emotional quotient is usually moving low
But once a girlfriend is offended
He knows how to run and argue with people
Stand up for your girlfriend
"She's my girlfriend,
"I have an obligation to agree with her."
Unconditional support like this
Is the response they really want
So when a girl asks you a question
What you need to do is not give her a fair and objective answer
That kind of evaluation can be seen by oneself
Who's so special, care? Your objectivity and impartiality
What they want is your attitude!!!
Your unconditional support!!!
That's the point!!!
To give a few examples
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Question: Baby, have I gained weight
Incorrect Answer: Fat, not fat, a little fat
I know it's spicy by looking in the mirror. I need you to tell me!
Correct answer: No matter whether you are fat or not, I like you!!!
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Question: I was scolded by my boss today
Incorrect Answer: It's time for you to reflect and summarize
This answer is basically not far from breaking up
Correct answer: First send a red envelope to comfort you
And help her scold the boss together
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Question: What do you like about me, Beibi
Ah, this is a deadly question
Need to respond to her with the strongest attitude
Because I like it, that's it
To truly like someone, you need to put yourself in her shoes and ask her to consider and think from her perspective.
So when a girl asks you a question, what she really needs is to see your attitude, not to be objective and fair in reasoning. The baby can only help you get here!