Post Date September, 25 2023
1、 Differences in sexual function
In order to have a harmonious and harmonious sexual life, both spouses should understand basic sexual knowledge, especially the normal differences in sexual function between men and women. Otherwise, couples cannot cooperate with each other in a tacit manner. In summary, there are some differences in sexual function between men and women:
(1) Male sexual desire is strong and exuberant, which can cause Sexual arousal at any time; Women's libido is relatively weak, and Sexual arousal is related to the Menstrual cycle (generally higher libido before and after ovulation and before menstruation). A few women have weak or even no sexual desire before marriage, and it gradually increases during the process of sexual intercourse after marriage.
(2) The male Libido appears quickly, enters the orgasm quickly, and the sexual desire fades quickly. Generally speaking, it takes about 2-6 minutes (or 3-15 minutes) for normal men to ejaculate from the beginning of sexual intercourse; Women's Libido occurs slowly, and it usually takes 10-30 minutes (or 5-15 minutes) to reach a high orgasm. The orgasm lasts for a long time, and the sexual desire subsides slowly.
(3) Male sexual desire tends to concentrate on the sexual organs and has a high desire for sexual intercourse; Women's sexual desire is relatively broad and complex, including talking and laughing, tenderness, caressing, and other aspects. Only after reaching a certain level of excitement can they have sexual intercourse requirements. The ideal sexual life is for both parties to reach orgasm simultaneously or for the woman to reach orgasm first, followed by ejaculation by the man. After the woman reaches orgasm, it does not affect the continuation of sexual intercourse; Moreover, unlike men, women can reproduce orgasmic pleasure in a short period of time (the degree of sexual pleasure varies from person to person. The same person also has different levels of pleasure during each sexual activity).
2、 Frequency of sexual intercourse
How many times of sexual intercourse is appropriate is a difficult question to answer.
The strength of sexual desire varies from person to person, and even the same person is influenced by various factors such as age, physique, personality, occupation, climate, environment, and emotions. Therefore, the frequency of sexual activity cannot be mechanically regulated, but should be appropriately adjusted based on the specific situation of both parties.
During the newlywed period, sexual desire is relatively strong and sexual intercourse is more frequent. In the first few months after marriage, usually 2-3 times a week. As you age, it gradually decreases to once every 1-2 weeks. People with poor health tend to have fewer occurrences. Couples who reunite after a long separation often have frequent sexual intercourse, which is human nature, but it is also necessary to exercise appropriate moderation.
Whether sexual activity is moderate can be judged by the sensation of the next day of sexual intercourse. If both parties do not feel tired, but feel full of emotions and work hard, it indicates moderate sexual activity.
If there are symptoms such as low sperm count, weight loss, decreased appetite, dizziness, and palpitations, it indicates that there is some excess and should be controlled. There are a few couples with strong sexual desire who have always had frequent sexual intercourse, but both parties are still cheerful and energetic, which should also be considered appropriate.
3、 Sexual intercourse time
The most appropriate time for each sexual intercourse is before falling asleep at night, in order to rest and restore physical strength after sexual intercourse. Sometimes the man works hard during the day and feels tired. It is best to sleep for a while before having sexual intercourse to avoid premature ejaculation.
In addition, in the following situations, the male or female partner must restrain their sexual desire and reduce or avoid sexual intercourse.
1. Early recovery from a serious illness makes sexual intercourse unsuitable.
2. When overtired, drunk, or in a bad mood, it is not advisable to engage in sexual activity.
3. During menstruation, sexual intercourse is absolutely prohibited.
4. During the first three months and last three months of pregnancy, sexual activity should be prohibited.
5. After childbirth and before the uterus recovers (approximately 6-7 weeks), sexual intercourse should be avoided.
6. After female releasing (or removing) and male Vas deferens ligation, sexual life is prohibited within two weeks. Women should avoid sexual intercourse within one month after Tubal ligation.
7. Doctors believe that other situations of sexual activity should be avoided.
