How to deal with sexual failure on the first night of marriage? Five Things Men and Women Must Know on the First Night of Wedding

The significance of the wedding night goes without saying. If the newlyweds are cohabiting for the first time, they may be very nervous. It is necessary to understand some sex education on wedding night. After all, everyone hopes for a successful marriage to have a good start. Five things men and women must know on their first night of marriage:

1、 How to deal with sexual failure on the first night of marriage?

It is also common to have failed sexual intercourse on wedding night. According to analysis, the main reasons for failure during first sexual intercourse are: 10% of penile weakness (excessive tension) before sexual intercourse; 8% of ejaculation (excessive excitement and impatience) before sexual intercourse or during contact with the female vagina; 35% of women experience pain; 15% do not know about sexual intercourse; 20% of the reasons are unknown. On the other hand, the failure of the first sexual intercourse is related to whether there is experience of caressing. People without experience account for two-thirds of the failures. After the first sexual failure, they can understand one-third of the reasons. Most losers can combine smoothly after 2-5 attempts. Therefore, even if they fail, they don't have to be impatient or worried. They can try again after taking a break, or after a day or two when both parties are emotionally stable and the fatigue during their wedding is relieved, they can try again. If a man fails, blaming a woman for being really useless or too bad often leads to greater psychological setbacks for a ashamed man. At this point, if the woman can be reasonable and murmur to the man as if nothing had happened, encouraging and comforting him, the man will regain his courage and seek a harmonious and happy sexual life.

2、 Are bleeding and pain virgins?

The hymen problem is the first thing that comes into contact with newlyweds during their first sexual encounter. The hymen has always played a more important role in society and morality than other sexual organs. This is because its integrity has always been considered a reliable indicator, or even the only indicator, of female chastity. In fact, from the perspective of medical practice, it is unscientific to determine whether a virgin is bleeding or experiencing pain. Because not every virgin will experience bleeding or pain during their first sexual intercourse, and the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person, including thin, thick, loose, tight, large, small, and different shapes. Some may rupture due to intense exercise, cycling, falls, injuries, menstrual cramps, masturbation, and other reasons; Some old hymens have already shrunk; Some are not obvious at birth: some hymens have strong stretchability, even though they remain intact after multiple sexual intercourse. Therefore, relying solely on the hymen to judge a wife's chastity is clearly very unfair.