The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not a stumbling block for couples

The mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship is a difficult problem that most couples face after marriage. In this complex relationship, there are no winners. Due to the fact that mother-in-law has much more life experience than daughter-in-law, they always like to impose their own attitude and way of doing things on their younger generation.

And with different eras, everyone's living environment is different, and their ways of thinking and handling things are even more different. As a result, the thoughts of the daughter-in-law often collide with the mother-in-law, resulting in frequent friction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. At this point, the husband, as the intermediary, often does not know how to handle it, and some husbands who follow the principle of filial piety will put their mother first, without asking about the cause, process, or outcome of the matter, blindly shifting the responsibility to their wife. As a result, the couple's emotions will gradually become indifferent, leading to separation.

As the saying goes, to untie the bell, one needs to tie the bell. The war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law leaves men at a loss, but how to solve the problem of a good mother and daughter-in-law requires appropriate methods. If not handled properly, it can easily lead to family disharmony and even marital breakdown.

Daughter-in-law has a better understanding of mother-in-law

As the saying goes, 'Marry your wife and forget your mother,' this is the 'heartfelt voice' of many mother-in-law. As a wife, it is important to remember that before you marry your husband, your mother-in-law is the closest woman to him. After getting married, Leng Buding ran out to a younger woman like you and took away her son, which would definitely bring a great sense of loss to her mother-in-law's heart. This requires you, as a daughter-in-law, to empathize, understand your mother-in-law's psychology, spend more time with her husband, and relieve her sense of loss.

Husbands should bravely take responsibility

Before getting married, men always thought they were the good babies of their parents, and even refused to live alone with their parents on the grounds of "I need to take care of them". And after marriage, just like before marriage, we live a life where we can reach out for clothes and open our mouths for food. As a mother, she can naturally tolerate her son's "capriciousness" and hopes that her daughter-in-law will take over her duties and continue to serve her son. Imagine, which girl would like to serve as a paid nanny after marriage? Therefore, as husbands, only your maturity can bring about sexual happiness in marriage and family harmony.

(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)