When many men in our country get married, one requirement for their partner is that they must be a virgin before marriage! In fact, under the current trend of individual liberation, the Virgo complex is an unhealthy mentality that is not in line with the values of our generation. We must believe that a truly good girl will not lose her qualities of gentleness, kindness, and loyalty while pursuing personal freedom. And that's all we really need. So, how do men overcome the virginity plot?
How Can Men Overcome Virginity Plot and Lose Virginity Without Love
1. Recognizing the essence of things
The so-called virgin refers to a woman who has no sexual experience, and when it comes to physiological changes, it's just that layer of membrane. And what a man cares about is not this membrane, but "experiences", memories of those sexual experiences that exist in her brain.
What men cannot accept is not the membrane of women, but the fact that their possessiveness cannot tolerate sexual experiences with other men still in women's minds. Due to the fact that she had these memories in her mind, her love was imperfect and very imperfect. Because of all the things women give to men, sex is the most important.
Indeed, virgins are precious, but there is nothing wrong with non virgins! As long as you give your emotions seriously, you will naturally give your body; No one knows whether the effort at that time was worth it, no one must be responsible for a future, unknown person, and no one is born to be someone else. Only by making men recognize this essence can they subconsciously resist non virgins and accept this fact with peace.
2. Face up to your girlfriend's love for you
When a man is not confident, he actually doesn't see clearly: after his girlfriend has had a romantic experience, he still chooses to be with him, which proves that in her heart, no other man is better than this man.
In relationships, it can be proven that deep feelings are not measured by sex. The proportion of sex in your relationship should be downplayed, rather than reducing the number of sexual encounters. Your other interactions should be at least as important as it. Strive to become a confidant or even a loved one, demonstrating that what you can do for her exceeds everything she has received before. Being with you, whether happy or sad, is irreplaceable by others. Remember, love sex!
3. Recognizing one's own shortcomings
When men feel that non virgins have imperfect regrets, they should look at themselves. They cannot always be perfect and spotless, and they may also have other shortcomings. Rather than being unable to relieve oneself from the pressure of seeking perfection, it is better to accept some regrets and focus on enjoying the joy of other advantages.
4. Understand, tolerate, and cherish each other
Two people walking hand in hand for a lifetime not only need to love each other's strengths, but also need to understand her weaknesses and tolerate her past. Life is a process of continuous growth, and what you experience is not important. Through experience, you learn to cherish love, and the ability to make marriage happy is the most important. It is not appropriate to let the "past" destroy the happy "present". The hymen is not more important than the happiness of a lifetime marriage.
Why do Westerners open up? Because they see sex as a very simple matter, which is essentially a physiological need. Western couples can easily talk about their premarital sexual partners, as long as they do not involve details, they are not shy.
Therefore, you can watch more American movies and TV dramas, especially life movies and TV series. Gradually, you will find that the exciting, fresh, but not dirty side of Western morality can be accepted by yourself. If you open your heart a little bit, your possessiveness will be much smaller.