There are often various biases in male consciousness, which are accepted by girls. After a boy and a girl unexpectedly had a dating relationship, the girl not only suffered physical and mental harm, but also faced responsibility towards the other party. The dissatisfaction in her heart cannot explain the following misconceptions.
Error: If a girl is sexy, it means she wants to have sex with a certain boy
Fact: If you find a girl sexy, the information she gives you includes many aspects. She may be telling you that she wants you to find her sexy or praise her figure. But she may just want you to appreciate her trendy eyes. Women are buying sexy clothes, such as Miniskirt and low neck shirts, just to keep up with the trend. Alternatively, she hopes that men will praise her taste, not that she wants to have sexual intercourse with a certain man. Of course, people's ideas about sexuality are also diverse. Some men may find it sexier to be exposed, while others may find it sexier to be exposed. Because he has more room for imagination. Maybe some men think that a certain color and material are the most attractive, but the dressed woman gave him a Sexual suggestiveness. In fact, the dress of this woman is just to show her personality!
In short, girls' sexiness does have various meanings, but it is different from wanting to have sexual relationships with people. Just like a well dressed man driving a luxurious car, no one would foolishly think that his intention was to be robbed or his car stolen. A man who flaunts his family's wealth is by no means hoping that someone will give up money. As for women showing their charm, it doesn't mean they want someone to force sexual intercourse.
Error: Boys have strong libido and cannot control themselves, girls cannot seduce boys
Fact: Men and women have strong sexual desire, and men and women are equally self-control. If someone says that this store shouldn't let me come, they should know that as long as I see such a great record, I have to pick up sheep by the way. Does this make sense? Similarly, being with attractive girls may be tempting for a boy, but if he has enough sexual desire, he should also be responsible for his actions.
In fact, it is easy to understand that men have the ability to self-control. For example, a boy's girlfriend came to his room and both of them were ready to have sex. At this point, other people came in, which could be the boy's parents, the school teacher, or even the principal. So, he will definitely interrupt his desires. Because he doesn't want to engage in very private activities in front of third parties. From this, it can be seen that when a woman refuses a man's sexual demands, she must have the ability to control herself physiologically and cannot easily meet her physiological needs or control her wishes.