The appearance of a mistress in marriage is indeed very frustrating, but when you think about it, is it all the mistress's own fault that the marriage lights up? No, there are several situations that are most likely to make Xiao San get into Confucius. Shine your eyes and see if you have hit the mark!
Marriage without children
There are three ways to be unfilial, and having no offspring is the greatest. Although modern people's thinking is very Westernized, it is undeniable that children are the best link to maintain marriage. Many people in modern times are influenced by the Western DINK family and do not want to have children. However, for Chinese people who have been rumored, marriage is still influenced by their parents, relatives, and friends. If they do not want children for the time being, it is better to say so. However, for those who do not have the ability to have children, the husband has an excellent reason to cheat. If he has an illegitimate child after cheating, It's not easy to get rid of you, and you can still get the full support of their family. As for you, being mute and eating yellow lotus, you can only endure it on your own.
Strong family strength or excessive reliance on their marriage
There are many couples in life who are stronger than men in terms of family background, economic conditions, and other aspects. They have been living in the woman's house since their marriage. When the husband requests to return to their own house, the wife also ignores them. After a period of time, the husband often comes home late or does not come home for various reasons, and then suddenly appears in front of you with a divorce agreement, The reason is that "I have been very frustrated at your house" and "I always have a feeling of being under someone else's supervision". At this time, if my wife thinks about moving out again, it will be too late and he will never go home. By the time you reflect on God, he will have already built a love nest with a third party. As long as Green Book is in hand, the human side will naturally speak up. A survey has found that many marriages with strong maternal power will ultimately make the husband "lose out" in their inferiority complex, as long as they compensate by finding a lover.
Separate and AA based marriage
They agreed on a political and economic AA system before marriage, but they did not realize that marriage is a community, resulting in opacity between them after marriage. In fact, doing so would only harm the feelings of the couple, leaving them in a parallel and non intersecting state in future marriages. It is precisely this kind of marriage that is most likely to be exploited by the third party.